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Recent content by KrillBee

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    Other people revealing the sexual history of your partner to you...

    If I told my partner what I knew they would immediately know who squeaked.
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    Other people revealing the sexual history of your partner to you...

    What if the friend who told you asked you not to tell them and you agreed?
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    Other people revealing the sexual history of your partner to you...

    What do you do when you are dating someone seriously, they haven't discussed all the details together about their previous sexual history, and then all of a sudden one of their friends spills the beans to you about their history? I assume that the partner is willing to share about their...
  4. K

    Spending the night at your boyfriend/girlfriend's place?

    A lot of people are commenting about the "sleeping in the car" situation. That happened once and she didnt tell me that she was going to do it. It was on a week night, and my parents have told me that they don't want her to spend the night here on week nights because it totally throws off...
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    Spending the night at your boyfriend/girlfriend's place?

    1) It feels too much like we live together on days where she stays over. I don't think it's a good idea to do that before you are married, hence why people live together after they are married. 2) It may have the appearance of evil to some people and the Bible advises not to do that.
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    Spending the night at your boyfriend/girlfriend's place?

    I'm in a bit of an odd relationship right now and have been for the last 6 months. I live in a city that is about 60 miles (or a 1.5 hour drive) from the city my g/f lives in. The city I live in is larger and we both enjoy spending time here more than in her city, so she comes over here when we...
  7. K

    What's the point of breaking up? If you were married to them, you wouldn't.

    What happens if it's too late, and I already screwed up and told her that I loved her too soon before I knew whether or not that I wanted to marry her? I mean I can't just stop telling her that I love her or that would come off really bad. At the same time, I don't want to keep saying it...
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    What's the point of breaking up? If you were married to them, you wouldn't.

    What is the point of breaking up with someone that you are dating and that you love? If something bothers you enough that you want to leave them (something besides cheating or turning away from God), it is considered okay to leave them, as long as you aren't married. However, if you are...
  9. K

    I won't marry someone unless God tells me to do so

    Is that too strong a stance to take? To wait until a sign from God before marrying someone?
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    My knees

    I biked too hard on my knees a year ago and it's a year later and they still hurt. It's mainly my left one. I've prayed and prayed and prayed, but God has not yet healed me. I am very unhappy about being stuck driving a car to work. Life isn't the same.
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    Am I a bad person for refusing to jump start his car?

    i have nothing to say to the last 3 posters
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    Am I a bad person for refusing to jump start his car?

    I dont believe that the word "deserve" has any meaning in the dating world. It's all about value, dating is a market. People receive in return what they are 'worth', not necessarily what they deserve. To give up something wonderful like a relationship because others see it as settling would...
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    Am I a bad person for refusing to jump start his car?

    I know you mean it nicely. I probably should mature a little first, but i dont think that will ever happen, and would it really be appropriate to be deprived of women just because im not mature? maybe i just need to find an immature woman like myself. As long as women are hard to get they...
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    Am I a bad person for refusing to jump start his car?

    i didnt start dating until maybe 6 months ago. I know that sounds sad but its pretty much true. The rush is that most of the good women i know are taken now. They got married by someone that they met in college. Also we are getting older, aging, and I want to get married to a woman before...
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    Am I a bad person for refusing to jump start his car?

    I'm not sure who was driving or who was taking who's car or what. it wouldnt surprise me if one of them drove drunk though. you do too