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Recent content by Kimmip

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    Dating to marry

    I told myself I wasn't going to date unless it was serious. Well, God brought someone to me and 6 months later we were engaged!
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    Complicated issue - between God and a woman

    I am sorry you are in this predicament. It seems you really do try and seek God in what you do. In my advice, I think praying for her marriage and for God to help it would actually be the best. God may have been urging you to reveal your emotions simply to teach you something and her something...
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    Poor and Engaged!

    I think we've actually made the decision to wait. Most likey until he is out of school with a job or if he has an opportunity to start working sooner. I feel we have the responsibility to provide, be good stewards and be responsible. If we can't make it financially now, not provide adequate care...
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    Poor and Engaged!

    California, Girl, I will most definately pray for you. God be with you both! Im so sorry to hear of such injuries!
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    Poor and Engaged!

    Here is the problem, I see both your sides and agree with both, except I do believe marriage should hold babies. I stand in the middle wanting God to direct my paths...I would love to see further info, and wisdom from both sides and from other people. I thank you both for your loving answers and...
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    Poor and Engaged!

    Thank you for your encouragement...From most of you. For recovering philosopher, I will forgive you as you ignorantly judged my intentions. I know you ladies understand how we feel. Love is a choice and takes hard work. We understand this and work hard at it. We want to live godly and be married...
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    Poor and Engaged!

    I grew up in a household that didn't live by Christian standards. This faith thing is totally new to me. I've been a walking Christian for almost 2 years and I feel I've learnd a lot. I am fine with being frugal and having little money. That is how I live now. He is fine too, I just don't want...
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    Poor and Engaged!

    My fiancee and I want to be married this March. He has almost 10,000 in savings and we both work but don't make much as he's still in college. Our parents want us to wait, want us to have med insurance and this and that and I understand it but the waiting is very hard on us, especially with the...
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    Teaching children

    The only scriptures I found supporting that are directed to men/fathers. Could it be that as the leader spiritually and the respect, I need to allow him to discipline and train them in spiritual things. That is hard for me, how am I to do this and raise kids, I can't do any of that until he...
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    Teaching children

    Hey all. I am trying to learn as much as I can about marriage and kids and all that. I have a question you may think is silly, but I am being serious. Can women teach children about biblical things? I know the bible says the man is the spiritual leader in the family and does that also mean he is...
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    Money issues before marriage

    Save as much as you can in the 8 months, do budgets a lot and pray for provision. I prayed for you both. Love and God bless!
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    Ladies advice Please:

    Don't be discouraged! If God places a good Christian woman for you in your life, then great! Not all women want to play games but like every one else, we go through much fear and not always knwoing what we want. A good leader who is loving... I think all godly women want that.:thumbsup: God bless.
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    If You're Very Rich, Would It Be Wise to Get a Prenup?

    Update, I just recently read in my bible that is is never a waste if you did something good and honorable and then lost the money.
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    How will I know When My Husband Comes?

    I think it's wise of you to pray for your future husband, family and marriage if it be in your future. That's a very loving move on your part. Now stay still. Let things just happen and don't seek it, that is biblical. Don't seek to be in a different position and be content where you are. If...
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    Prayer request for my fiance and I!

    I will pray for you hun. My advice for you is to not move in with him, and if you don't want to have sex before marriage...don't move in with him. No one is too strong to be tempted. Have him visit or go through pre-marital counseling together. You can even do this over the phone with a...