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My wife and I are not getting along at all. I never thought I would feel so alone and shamed being married. I am blamed for all of our weaknesses, issues, all of the issues the children have, and for being me. I don't stand a chance. She has started having "Business lunches" with men she doesn't...

Dated for 3 years

just read it again.. I will ask her..

Well first, I feel so uncomfortable when she wants to have sex I am the one who feels like I'm doing her wrong. She can't look at me, can't kiss me, and I am pushed away if I try to kiss her anywhere. She says she does it "because I(me) need it" well little known truth about men. we don't. It...

I think your question is valid. As a marriage it is a fraud yes. As it stands before God the creator of marriage, ummmm I'd be afraid to think of what his thoughts are. Marriage was designed by God not man. If it is for business it is still marriage. If it is cousins that is still irrelevant. It...

I am going to start a study with my wife about being a christian wife and husband. but more along the lines of just being what God wants us to be. I will start with love Agape, then run through service, sacrifice, healing, epathy, vulnerability, honesty, all the while standing on the Rock of...

A reply to both of you. Yes I do not think it is making Love if only one wants to be there. I am maybe a softee but it is really hard for me to make love to someone who does not want to make love to me. Yes I do think she is trying to tell me her hearts desire of what she is needing. It is...

I'm in no great shape to "give advise". I think our past is God's path, we stray sometimes though. But in those times when we are away from God he is with us and those times that we look back upon with discust of ourselves are the times when we learn the hardest lessons. If the lesson was never...

Whats wrong? I too am in a confused season in my life. All I know to do at this point is to lean heavy on Jesus. I pray about whats going on in my world and those around and hand it all to the Creator. I know I am too weak to do it alone. Blessings and Strength to you

I am going to start a study with my wife about being a christian wife and husband. I will start with love Agape, then run through service, sacrifice, healing, epathy, vulnerability, honesty, all the while standing on the Rock of Jesus. I thought about it and in the grand scheme of things if we...

What she has written that I do wrong: Trouble finding a job, don't make enough money,(got a job today by the way woohoo!! Praise GOD!!!) raising the kids, the way I fix things at home, That it bothers me that she has lunches with men on a personal level, That it feels like i'm raping her when we...

Ya she does keep track of the bad and the good seems to disappear in the darkness that shrouds her view of me. I do not want to face the pain of asking her to make such a list. Nice thought though... Thank You!! God's blessings

Thank you! I needed that. I seem to let her opinion undermine what I do or think. I know I am supposed to lead and guide her. My ultimate goal would be to return her to our Father better that He gave her to me. Yes I did suggest a councillor. Her response was... well she said Why? I know...

Where to begin? My heart is too heavy, my soul hurts, I don't know what to do. My wife and I are not getting along. we have been married for 3 years 6 months and 27 days. I keep trying to find what I can do different, how can I get her to hear me? Why does she think that her having lunch...