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    Marriage failing Prayer NEEDED!!

    My wife and I are not getting along at all. I never thought I would feel so alone and shamed being married. I am blamed for all of our weaknesses, issues, all of the issues the children have, and for being me. I don't stand a chance. She has started having "Business lunches" with men she doesn't...
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    Why is marriage so tough??

    Why is marriage so tough. Why is it so easy for spouses to hurt each other? I have discovered that marriage is one of the toughest things on the planet. Maybe it is just my marriage that is so tough but I don't think so. My wife thinks so low of me that I stand little chance of ever pleasing...
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    My marriage is failing and I am weakening

    just read it again.. I will ask her..
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    My marriage is failing and I am weakening

    Well first, I feel so uncomfortable when she wants to have sex I am the one who feels like I'm doing her wrong. She can't look at me, can't kiss me, and I am pushed away if I try to kiss her anywhere. She says she does it "because I(me) need it" well little known truth about men. we don't. It...
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    Marrying cousins

    I think your question is valid. As a marriage it is a fraud yes. As it stands before God the creator of marriage, ummmm I'd be afraid to think of what his thoughts are. Marriage was designed by God not man. If it is for business it is still marriage. If it is cousins that is still irrelevant. It...
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    I need advise on rebuilding my marriage..

    I am going to start a study with my wife about being a christian wife and husband. but more along the lines of just being what God wants us to be. I will start with love Agape, then run through service, sacrifice, healing, epathy, vulnerability, honesty, all the while standing on the Rock of...
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    My marriage is failing and I am weakening

    A reply to both of you. Yes I do not think it is making Love if only one wants to be there. I am maybe a softee but it is really hard for me to make love to someone who does not want to make love to me. Yes I do think she is trying to tell me her hearts desire of what she is needing. It is...
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    Digging Up The Past

    I'm in no great shape to "give advise". I think our past is God's path, we stray sometimes though. But in those times when we are away from God he is with us and those times that we look back upon with discust of ourselves are the times when we learn the hardest lessons. If the lesson was never...
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    worried....confused....just dont know what to do.

    Whats wrong? I too am in a confused season in my life. All I know to do at this point is to lean heavy on Jesus. I pray about whats going on in my world and those around and hand it all to the Creator. I know I am too weak to do it alone. Blessings and Strength to you
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    My marriage is failing and I am weakening

    I am going to start a study with my wife about being a christian wife and husband. I will start with love Agape, then run through service, sacrifice, healing, epathy, vulnerability, honesty, all the while standing on the Rock of Jesus. I thought about it and in the grand scheme of things if we...
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    My marriage is failing and I am weakening

    What she has written that I do wrong: Trouble finding a job, don't make enough money,(got a job today by the way woohoo!! Praise GOD!!!) raising the kids, the way I fix things at home, That it bothers me that she has lunches with men on a personal level, That it feels like i'm raping her when we...
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    My marriage is failing and I am weakening

    Ya she does keep track of the bad and the good seems to disappear in the darkness that shrouds her view of me. I do not want to face the pain of asking her to make such a list. Nice thought though... Thank You!! God's blessings
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    My marriage is failing and I am weakening

    Thank you! I needed that. I seem to let her opinion undermine what I do or think. I know I am supposed to lead and guide her. My ultimate goal would be to return her to our Father better that He gave her to me. Yes I did suggest a councillor. Her response was... well she said Why? I know...
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    My marriage is failing and I am weakening

    Where to begin? My heart is too heavy, my soul hurts, I don't know what to do. My wife and I are not getting along. we have been married for 3 years 6 months and 27 days. I keep trying to find what I can do different, how can I get her to hear me? Why does she think that her having lunch...
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    Troubled Wife Leaving

    I'm with you brother. Dear Lord, I lift to you this man and his family. Lord I humbly ask that you lift them to You and shower the in Your Light. Push the demons from my brothers wife, and give him Your Strength so he will be able to care for her in her time of healing. Lord I also ask that...
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    in need of prayer

    To tell you the story would take forever, son in a nut shell X-wife youngest daughter, psychologist non-believer X-wife chose. Please pray for my beautiful little girl.. God bless:groupray:
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    Week end away

    oh and don't do anything rash like run away, it sounds like you may love this man. Love can overcome anything anytime anywhere!!!
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    Week end away

    I sympathise with you. Sounds like he is a man filled with spite and anger. But Heart of Gold the anger shows in your words too. Currently I'm filled with much the same pain you feel. My wife has said some horrible things to me and like you I can't hold anymore in me, it is far too great for me...
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    Pray For Majorca

    Dear Lord, I pray for the people in Majorca and they would be in your light. Let them know who you are and how great you are. Keep them safe from harm and fill their hearts with your light. in our Lords name we pray amen