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Recent content by Kaai

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    My Departure

    Thank you!
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    My Departure

    Thank you dearly for your kind words.
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    My Departure

    Thank you!
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    My Departure

    I will do exactly that.. As for my mother in her words "she's a grown woman, and doesn't need anybody to have her back."
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    My Departure

    *No he doesn't know yet, I'm in the process of preparing the letter.
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    My Departure

    I have made a conscious decision to leave my family church. Why? On 1/23/2019 my father who is a deacon of the church violently attacked my mother and I. How can I listen to/watch a man pray, sing in choir, or volunteer in the church knowing what I know about him behind closed doors. It's as if...
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    Am I missing my Blessing?

    Since 2011 and on up to 2018, there has been a young man who has had a crush on me. He has asked once before for me to be his girlfriend, yet it wasn't until after graduation that we discussed relationships in general and gave our perspectives on the topic. This guy has amazing qualities, he...
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    Were we ever friends?

    Thank you.
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    Were we ever friends?

    My Bestfriend and I have been friends for 4 years, up until recently the future of our friendship is in question. My friend has taken me on the journey from sitting in her dental interview, to help orchestrating dental essay and application, to soliciting advice and giving encouraging words like...