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Recent content by justneverendingproblems21

  1. J

    Would you marry someone who was possibly transgender?

    We actually ended up getting married... And I'm not gay.... I like girls. I never said I only liked men. I don't want to be with a guy. I love my wife and if she chooses to live as a man I support that. I realized I love her no matter what. So things are going well so far.
  2. J

    Would you marry someone who was possibly transgender?

    She doesn't question her sexuality... She's actually ways known what she was as far as her sexuality. I wouldn't really mind if she liked girls as long she was attracted to me I just can't really see myself with her as a man specifically.
  3. J

    Would you marry someone who was possibly transgender?

    My gf and I are planing to get married very soon. But I'm skeptical because she's always identified as more on the male side of things. It worked out well because I tend to fit more on the female side of things despite her being a biofemale and me being biological male. She's said in the past...
  4. J

    Why fake lashes instead of mascara? I don't get it?

    I have thin eyelashes and are on the short side of things.... Not extremely but like you I've heard people say that mascara only subtly enhances the eyelashes giving them color etc.... But that's not true you can use mascara so it gives a natural look. Or you can get the dramatic look...
  5. J

    Why fake lashes instead of mascara? I don't get it?

    You obviously don't know how to apply mascara because mascara can give the same look if you apply many coats on. Using mascara can give the same look...
  6. J

    Why fake lashes instead of mascara? I don't get it?

    also sorry but I can't post a vid since I'm new
  7. J

    Raising a child outside of marriage? Why is marriage important to religious people?

    But what good does it do her to lie and say I take it as something more important. I don't see it as a declaration of love. It's actions that matter more than words really to me. But thanks for your opinion.
  8. J

    Raising a child outside of marriage? Why is marriage important to religious people?

    My bad I just meant parenting without being legally married. No I am not being stubborn I'm actually thinking of my gf in this. Like I said I don't want to live a lie. I understand how you see things can you see how I see things please for one sec.
  9. J

    Raising a child outside of marriage? Why is marriage important to religious people?

    well I've always known she's the one that I would spend my life with way if she gave me a chance. Back when I was 15 when we first met. Personalitywise she never gets old for me. We fit perfectly together. We're polar opposites but it makes a great balance. I have never felt strong feelings for...
  10. J

    Raising a child outside of marriage? Why is marriage important to religious people?

    these were reasons explained about why I don't believe in marriage. Because I wouldn't be being true I wouldn't value the fact that we were married. That's nothing binding to me.
  11. J

    Raising a child outside of marriage? Why is marriage important to religious people?

    uh no we live together I don't get why so many of you assume we don't live together. I actually own my own home and have a promising career. I may be young but that doesn't mean I'm not secure.
  12. J

    Raising a child outside of marriage? Why is marriage important to religious people?

    You pointed out a good point. Her family wants me to convert. But I don't want to or plan to. She wants to just get married and hopefully that halfway appeases them they'll just lie about my affiliation if they have to others of their faith. The thing is she's not that religious and basically...
  13. J

    Raising a child outside of marriage? Why is marriage important to religious people?

    I don't really believe in lying if I can't commit then I can't do it. If you love someone you don't deceive them just so you can stay together with them. Either way I see myself as spending my life with her and commitment not being a chore but of my own freewill. I also think this this how...