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Recent content by JSmalls

  1. J

    I don't love him enough

    Well said :amen:
  2. J

    Wife's pregnant...no sex!

    Hahaha whoa yeah just realized that. I'm probably the 100th person to drag this on lol. Ermm, tough one...I thank God I don't have a wife like that, but honestly if I did, her attitude would more than likely kill any sexual desires within me and I'd just wait it out until after the baby was...
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    Wife's pregnant...no sex!

    Not sure if anyone has already brought this up, sorry didn't read through the full 5 pages... BUT there are alternatives to sexual intercourse. My wife and I got creative during her pregnancy to satisfy my desires, but at the same time she wasn't feeling the uncomforts of penetration or me...
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    He acts like a child

    Tough spot to be in...I've felt the same way towards my wife. I feel like the main things we are called to do as believers are to continue loving the other unconditionally as Christ loves us, as our faithful behavior even when the others actions don't merit it may speak into the life of your...
  5. J

    I don't love him enough

    Hey don't beat urself up. Sounds like ur husband is quite loving and full of grace. Kudos to him, I fail in that area quite often with my wife. The hardest thing to do is recognize the not so good about yourself. Takes humility which you've obviously got and is very admirable. Use this as a...
  6. J

    Engaged Friends Cheating

    I am posting this via my husbands account. Sorry for the confusion lol I do not believe her because my other friends have told me she is still lying and that the truth is they did more than kiss. I do not know her THAT well, she asked me to be a bridesmaid mainly because she knows I have a...
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    Engaged Friends Cheating

    I don't want to see them get divorced obviously. Which is why I feel I should take action to ensure everyone knows and that they truly have worked this out. Then at the same time I'd feel awful if I ruined their wedding...but if it comes to that I am just trying to bring this sin to light...but...
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    Engaged Friends Cheating

    Hi, One of my friends is soon to be married but I found out she had cheated on her fiance and may not have told him. I confronted her about it and she said that she only kissed the guy, and told her fiance and that they have moved on and are past that. I feel like I am in a tight spot though...