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Recent content by joyinchrist

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    The Case For A Creator

    i've read part of it so far... its really neat! brings up a lot of questions about how they can possibly still be teaching darwin in the public school system if there are so many proofs against it :)
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    should i visit someone in prison?

    i have been asking, but i dont really feel compelled either way :(
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    should i visit someone in prison?

    now ya got me thinking... using me for what??? i had pen pals that had asked me for money and stuff, but i simply said no, and didnt hear back from them... this person gets nothing from me but my letters. he has even said he would send money for my travelling expenses, not that i would take...
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    should i visit someone in prison?

    yeah, perhaps, its hard to tell.
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    should i visit someone in prison?

    Wow! thank you all so much for the replies! I thought that i would get a notice in my email, but i didnt, so i just wandered back here and look at all these answers! thank you all soooo much! Now, let me answer some specific questions... Tavita: Yes, I suppose that there is a hope of a...
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    should i visit someone in prison?

    I didnt know where to put this thread, but this seemed like an appropriate enough place. For the past year I have been writing to people in prison. I started out just with people on death row, but kept losing my friends. Anyhow, there is one person that I find I identify with immensly...
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    anitdepressants and sex

    oh you usually take both?? I thought wellbutrin was an antidepressant on its own?
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    When does flirting go too far?

    I would probably think that they liked me a little too much... and also that they dont value their relationship as much as they should
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    Why can't I really get friends?

    God is good!
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    When does flirting go too far?

    If either they or their girlfriends "liked" me sitting on their lap, I think I would seriously wonder about them. Seriously, thats just odd
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    When does flirting go too far?

    Hmmm... I have some close guy friends, and I could never imagine sitting in their lap. It would disrespect them and their girlfriends
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    God's Signs in Relationships...

    well if you want to be technical, we are both right
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    i need to get away!!!!!!!!!!!

    we dont always get along with family... i used to feel the same way about mine, took some therapy to work through it all... if you find the right answer it will eventually work out... do you know what caused all this to start?