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Recent content by josh321

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    Christian Mingle

    I've never tried Christian Mingle myself but I know their site isn't Christian owned and operated, which is concerning. Have you been able to research any good reviews on them?
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    very true...I've seen that too
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    What do you mean they aren't regarded as family until they start having kids?
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    Sorry to hear that...yes, we should always go to our spouse first...not last
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    that's interesting...I've never heard that about the Dutch culture before.
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    I think that would depend on the person's self worth and self image.
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    Definitely shows what we look for is somewhat unique for each person based on our own background and preferences
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    but we all mistakes after becoming believers as well....what's a realistic expectation with this?
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    Great point on prioritizing people over idols....
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    Yes, looking out for one another and having each other's back seems essential
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    yes, definitely a balance where we don't want to be independent in our romantic relationships but also not dependent...interdependent seems like the goal.
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    yes, definitely a major difference between a suggestion and an order
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    I think it's a balance...you don't want to have such high standards no one is ever good enough. However, I also think there's wisdom in being careful with who we become "yoked" with.
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    I'll take your word on that one!
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    What To Look for In A Christian Mate....Your Thoughts?

    Got it...yes, building trust and knowing your partner will hold things in confidence is paramount.