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Recent content by jham123

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    Second Marriage - Blending families concern

    ^^I'm not even going to respond to Key any further. His arguments have degraded into name calling and personal attacks......so I know that he has no real argument. Which is sad. I love a 'good' debate.....(keyword being "good") When he stated that the Step-parent/Step-child relationship...
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    Second Marriage - Blending families concern

    Key, give it up already. You are the lone voice for your "position" Not one person, save the OP, agrees with anything you've asserted. There comes a time in life when a bit of inflection is needed. I think you need to sit down and take it easy for a few days and reassess what you believe. It...
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    Separated ~ is comfort sex wrong..

    This is one of the toughest threads there is. There is no easy or direct answer for what you are going through. Gods plan will be revealed in the long run is all I can think of to say to you. I'm so sympathetic for you and I wish you the best. I know it is hard....I know.... One day at a time.
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    Second Marriage - Blending families concern

    ^Whatever......The kids choice TODAY remains....he is 15 he can chose to live with whichever parent. So whether the choice was made 6 months ago or is being made today....the facts of the choice are the same.....stay in his house or move 350 miles away or to some new apartment that his dad had...
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    Second Marriage - Blending families concern

    ^^Yup, and in this particular case, the 15 yo was given a choice to stay in his home or move 350 miles away to an unknown home with only the Father as his only connection. Wow, I am sure the 15 yo was torn. But back to reality, if you asked the child, his choice would have been to have Dad...
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    Second Marriage - Blending families concern

    I am sorry, but I speak for the ones that cannot voice what or how they feel. Stepchildren get trampled every single day in our society, and hardly any one voices opposition to that madness...least not openly. You are the stepmom, The 15 yo has lost his Dad no matter how you word it. You ask...
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    More sexist propeganda on the radio

    ^^and that has been my agenda since arriving here. whenever I see the Sexism rolling off the tongues of the posters here....I try to point it out......you'd think I grew two heads by the reactions. The Sexism is so prevalent that people vehemently deny making the statements they made in...
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    More sexist propeganda on the radio

    Yes....But this particular subject is about "Women" and the radio claims about immaturity about Men... If you'd like to start a topic describing how both men and women can be immature....GREAT......blast off and start that topic..... This topic, however, is about the propaganda found on the...
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    More sexist propeganda on the radio

    Well, the thread starter went on to include how the Women lined up to call in and bash said immature men.... Sooo....... Look, I understand the title "sexist propaganda" and the fact that it is about women and this movement to eviscerate the male makes you a bit defensive......cause your...
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    Feeling really sad

    OrangeHope, I'll say one thing that has basically propelled me forward through the decades...... You have two chances to have a great family. One you are born in and you have no control over, the second one is the one you create yourself and you control everything. You've had to cut your ties...
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    More sexist propeganda on the radio

    Then Start a thread about that topic....this particular topic is not about that is it?? Nice attempt to deflect the reality.
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    More sexist propeganda on the radio

    The evisceration of the male American has been a progressive agenda for many years now. All things Male and strong are to be ridiculed. And the Women marry these men question?? Why do they get married? they must blame someone for the pitiful existence created by being a miserable...
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    Feeling really sad

    Right on the button with that one. If the "new" GF is not going to respect the wishes of the "parents" of the child then the irresponsible adults are not to be trusted further. Children are hard enough to raise without adults filling their head with mixed signals. This woman has been...
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    Have You Ever Hit Your Spouse?

    LOL....just one thing.....comparing speeding to "beating your spouse" is laughable at best.....do you not hear yourself? Just because it is Woman on Man domestic violence and because the man is "tougher" and can take it, you defend the woman.... If any man had hit his Wife, would you not...
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    The Importance of being Mr. Fix-It.

    Being able to fix things is a curse at times. I fix everything in the house, seldom do we have anyone here for repairs nor do the cars go to the shop for repairs. Yes, I have had to take the toilet off the mounts more times that any man should have to in order to retrieve "X" item that...