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Recent content by Jetma1572

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    Please Pray for my Family and I in this difficult time

    Heyy all , my oldest daughter is struggling with her eating disorder , she has autism and gets stuck on her thoughts with food too , for the last little bit she was in the hospital for the second time for her eating disorder ,she's home now but still wont eat and we have to bring her into the...
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    My daughter came out and told me she wants to be a boy ...

    no worries you didn't upset me at all i just wanted to explain why I couldn't get myself to call her this name when she believes she's a boy if she wanted a nickname or call her Elliott because she liked it and it didn't change her gender or her then absolutely I wouldn't have a problem. I'm...
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    My daughter came out and told me she wants to be a boy ...

    I was thinking this too about someone either abusing her or harrassed her because she went back to school in September here and I was getting a call form the school almost every day saying that she wasn't listening and walking the halls and taking off from the classroom she told me it was her...
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    My daughter came out and told me she wants to be a boy ...

    I definitely do think this is linked to her autism and mental health and that's why I really try and sit down with her and explain the best I can I wouldn't have such a hard time with it if she came to me and was like " mom I don't like my name can you call me a nickname or call me this " and id...
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    My daughter came out and told me she wants to be a boy ...

    thank you for your advice and I totally agree with us keep calling her a girl . we have been doing that especially my husband he is finding this extremely difficult because they had such a good relationship and now it feels like he lost his little girl , he wont call her Elliott or he he calls...
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    My daughter came out and told me she wants to be a boy ...

    thank you for this I was trying to find scripture to figure out answers to some of her questions and I'm a newer Christian so sometimes it takes me a bit to find but thank you this is awesome ill definitely let her know this
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    My daughter came out and told me she wants to be a boy ...

    We definitely monitor as much as we can like regular checks and know all her passwords but she does have Instagram and fb she used to have snapchat but we told her that's defiantly a no because of chats disappearing ect , but we might look into this device that monitors internet activity called...
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    My daughter came out and told me she wants to be a boy ...

    I heard about the suicide rate being high on this I'm trying to approach this very gracefully while telling her my and my husband values I'm not exactly sure where this came from she said she just wants us to have her dress up in dresses and we don't accept her which I have no idea where this...
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    My daughter came out and told me she wants to be a boy ...

    This is what she thinks she is, she says that God made her a girl but really wants her a boy . but I have told her that this isn't true God wouldn't of made her a women if he wanted her a man I have told her that we are all made in the image of Him and that we have a will and purpose but she...
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    My daughter came out and told me she wants to be a boy ...

    I never thought of it like this and I agree that both are linking somehow too from what my understanding about what she told me about the eating disorder was because she thought she was ugly and overweight when she looked in the mirror she was in the hospital for this for several months last...
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    My daughter came out and told me she wants to be a boy ...

    Thank you so much for your reply and I agree in our own household I think it should be what my husband and I have for rules and outside of that its her choice on what to be called I love how you said about Jesus ate with sinners but didn't sin this is so true when I read this it really hit my...
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    My daughter came out and told me she wants to be a boy ...

    My Oldest daughter has struggled with an eating disorder for the last year and was recently diagnosed with autism this past summer . she regularly sees mental health in our town for the past year , she is 15 years old. About a week ago at one of her appointments she came out and told me she...
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    Should I start looking for a different church ?

    I'm sorry this happened to you :( I agree sometimes things just don't work out, I hope and pray you found someplace that brings you joy
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    Should I start looking for a different church ?

    no no I promise you didn't , I'm definently going to try and resolve this by making a appt with my pastor and going from there . but I promise you didn't say anything wrong