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Recent content by Jayhawk4Christ

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    Question about Abilify

    Well, I'm glad it's working for you. I guess it's because you're on a low dosage. But it seems like it's pretty common to affect people negatively like it did. But, hey, if it is helping someone else, then that's great. God Bless all of you.
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    Question about Abilify

    Hey Ladies and Gentleman, I have had my share of struggles with depression and anxiety, and at one time I was even diagnosed with BiPolar. Anyway, I'm not on any meds right now and by God's Grace, I'm doing OK, but I make sure that I go to support groups and spend time with people who lift me...
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    The song, "The Plan" by Steve Green

    Has anyone heard this song by Steve Green? I think it's a wonderful song, and I think it's especially meaningful to those of us who are single, but it applies to Christians no matter where they are in life. Just curious what anyone else thinks about this song if they have heard it.
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    Christians singles living together??

    One last thing. First of all, I'm not condemning you. Any of us are vulnerable to the same temptation you are dealing with. That being said, you say you are firm in your decision, but I wonder how firm you are if you are asking us what we think. Come on, man, you know what you are doing is...
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    Christians singles living together??

    Etcastle, I would have to say that living together before marriage violates Ephesians 5:3, "But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity." (NIV) This verse applies to us all, though and not just sexual sins. Anyway, my point is this. No one can...
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    It’s hard to drive at night with tears in your eyes.

    I'm sorry you feel that way, but I'm single too and although I often struggle with lonliness, I know there are so many worse things then being single. One of them is being in a terrible marriage. You really need to put things in perspective. There is more to life then just having a mate. If...
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    It's one of those days...

    Thanks to all of you for your sympathetic ears and suggestions. The next time a day like this comes around, I will remember your suggestions. My buddy ended up calling me and asked me if I wanted to go to a festival with him and his girlfriend. I decided to go. However, I started to wonder if I...
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    It's one of those days...

    Well, it's one of those days. I'm feeling pretty lonely today. It's not necessarily because I'm single. It's just that I have no plans this saturday and all my buddies are pretty busy. I don't mind being single, but it would be nice to have an abudance of friends. I only have a few and two of...
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    Glenview, IL any one?

    I live just north of Downtown, in the Lincoln Park area, but due to a new job I'm starting in the fall, I think I'm leaning towards moving to Hyde Park. Where do you live?
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    Dating an unbeliever?

    The conversion while dating thing is kind of like the ol' deathbed conversion. Sure, they happen.... about as often as the L.A. Clippers make the playoffs.
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    Glenview, IL any one?

    I'm not in Glenview, but I am in Chicago. I think that's close enough.
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    Dating an unbeliever?

    I'm going to step in here and add my two cents. If you want to date a non-believer, then that is your choice. No one can stop you. But don't try to rationalize it from the Bible. In addition to the unequally yoked passage, Paul says he has the right to take on a believing wife (1 Corinthians...
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    Hi Everyone! I have a situation on my hands with which I need help.

    Hey Everyone. I just talked to him again. He told me that he believes the sexual encounters are wrong, and he indicates to me that this is something he does not want to do again. I then asked him why he puts himself in compromising situations and he responded, "by then, I'm already in my...
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    Hi Everyone! I have a situation on my hands with which I need help.

    Thanks everyone for your feeback. I seriously thinking about what to do. I very well may post it in the mens forum. Punkgirl, I must disagree with you when you say it's not our job to judge the decisions and actions of other people. With all due respect, are you saying that we can't call sin...
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    Hi Everyone! I have a situation on my hands with which I need help.

    Well, other than my post in the intro forum, this is my first post. How's everyone doing? I'm new here, obviously, and I'm looking forward to some good discussion. In case anyone is wondering, I'm a 26 year old single guy, and I'm content, most of the time. Although I do get lonely sometimes...