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Recent content by Ixoye116

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    it isn't because of sin, is it?

    Yes children are a blessing and no thats not what it means ... its means that that child right now didnt match God's plan for your wife and you right now ... Please understand that I have very little knowledge of Gods plan for myself much less for you and your wife .... but I know and trust the...
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    Salutations

    You guys rock thanks! Krissy Cakes I am totally praying for your mom!!! Thanks Lexie for the blessings and run down ... Thanks guys I think I am going to really like it here!
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    I am so sick of my wife!

    I think sex and money are interesting points in marriage ... they arent problems unless its lacking!
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    I am so sick of my wife!

    Yes our marriage failed because I wasnt the spiritual leader God calls men to be in the marriage .... had I been we would still be married .... I think that everything that happened (including the lack of sex) in our marriage was a biproduct of me not being who God called me to be.
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    I am so sick of my wife!

    This whole thread scares me ..... It scares me how jaded some of the views are on sex .... it scares me because I had a failed marriage ... we went 18 months w/o sex right after our honeymoon .... I felt like I was supportive of her healing (over past issue that "caused" the 18 month lapse) I...
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    it isn't because of sin, is it?

    Brotha you really need to stop that type of thinking! It's dangerous, dangerous for you, your wife, your marriage!!! God's will is perfect, His plan is perfect, hardly does it match with what we want or think we want. The only thing you should take from this experience is that God didn't want...
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    I hate this

    Let me say first that I am praying for your family .... God's will be done!! Secondly I would say check for a ultrasound school in your area!! they offer utlra sounds usually free of charge, my wife and I just got one done about a week ago. We had some concerns early as my wife doesnt have...
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    Is this Christian?

    ^^^^^ Amen!!!!
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    Is this Christian?

    I get sad when I hear these story's ... and I think we all hear them far too often .... but as Jesus said "If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her". Now with that being said I also have a solid understand that just because you go to church and call yourself...
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    I am so sick of my wife!

    I hate when I cant find the towels!!! Garrraahhhh!!!
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    Salutations

    Hello brothers and sisters, My name is Johnny I'm a 31 year young married father of 2 (soon to be 3). I was saved back in 95 but fell away after high school, I got married, got drunk, had kids, got divorced. Then in 08 I got resaved, sober, married, and got a baby on the way. I realized in...
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    Need A Career

    AWESOME!!! I did a fast about a 2 weeks ago to sort some things out and man does God make moves when He is your only focus!! The health care and home health care industries are among tops as far as INC500's top growth industries so thats good! With the baby boomers retiring just around the...
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    NFL off-season News (4)

    You forgot Rodger listed as questionable for this week .... :( Not only did my packers get beat this week we got beat up ... J-Fin out for 3 weeks ... Arod might be out this week ... good thing CM3 only tweeked a hammy!
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    Need A Career

    Pray- always start with prayer .... Where do you feel called to? Do you have something that you love to do and would do for free? What is your degree in? Personally I struggle with work - I work in advertising and recently started a christian clothing company on the side ... but I dont...
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    New on the forums :)

    Pleasure to meet you .... I am also new .... so far I must say this place is pretty ... interesting ... lol