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Recent content by Indea88

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    Not home yet!

    Thanks for your continued prayers...:amen: I have spoken to our elders,regarding his addictions and they are well aware. They have encouraged us to seek professional counsel. My H admits the addictions but is not moving towards change or responsibilty in this area, and yes ,it plays a major role...
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    Not home yet!

    Thank you for your thoughtful post...I have been to the church elders, I should speak to the Pastor. The elders have maintained the stance that he needs to reach out to them first,now that they know that he is returning home they feel that they need to speak to him about the order in marriage...
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    What Are You Doing For Valentines Day?

    We've been seperated for a few months and I have been through soo many emotions it's been heartwrenching... He called last night to say he is cooking dinner for me tonight, I almost fell off the chair. Prior to this bomb he dropped I was planning to spend VD with a girlfriend who is also...
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    Not home yet!

    My H has been gone for 2 months. It wasn't until I completely broke all contact with him that he is working his way back home. He has been lenghthening the time spent each time he comes. He called from work yesterday to say he was taking a half day from work, would I be home? He spent from 1 pm...
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    Troubled Marriage

    I can painfully relate to your situation;) My H can and does drink 8-12 beers a night. He has not been delivered from this stronghold. He'll say I know I drink too much but I stay home and drink?? He is an alcoholic and I cannot change him, only God can deliver him when he wants to be free from...
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    A small breakthrough

    :pray: My husband came over after work last night, the second day in a row to see my son.We began to talk, first about money and how he thinks I am wasting it, how I can't manage a dollar.(My car is in the shop needing 600.00 worth of repairs and I had to have a rental.) I reminded him that he...
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    Breaking Point?

    My husband leaves repeatedly, blaming me for a messy house, not enough meals, "claiming I don't care...He has a drug and alcohol addiction and still says it's all my fault. All my fault for enabling him and allowing the revolving door. He says this is the last time. I should make it his last...
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    Ex asking for money

    It must make you angry that he came to you for money when you are trying to make things a go for your boys with the sporadic payments. I know the thing to do is to not give it to him, this will enable him to do this again but what would we normally do, help, with the heart of Christ. I was in...
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    Left after accepting Christ

    Thank you so much Peacechild for your powerful prayers:amen: Thank you Jesus:bow:
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    Separated and vacation

    Since the trip has been paid for, I suspect this is the reason he would go...Then when we return he's off on his merry way. I was going to cancel but the room is a huge suite, and I might never have the opportunity again for awhile to travel this way. It should prove to be interesting however it...
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    Separated and vacation

    My husband has been gone for 6 weeks, he comes by weekly to see our son. We have a Disney Cruise scheduled and has been finalized for over one year. I reminded him today about the date of the vacation in 1 month and he didn't say no,he wasn't going..I need to know in order to cancel or continue...
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    Healing From Alcohol Addiction

    My husband is an alcoholic and uses drugs, he has left over ten times and each time he blames me for why he is leaving. I didn't know how much of an enabler I had become until he left this last time. He refuses treatment, thinks 12-15 beers a night is ok and isn't so much as drunk after the 12...
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    Left after accepting Christ

    Thank you for your prayers....He has been staying with family and friends, he says he is not coming home...I am left with only prayers to our God, the God of breakthrough and restoration. :amen:
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    Left after accepting Christ

    Thanks so much for the replies and guidance.:) I have posted in this forum because I was a believer marrying an unbeliever. He came to Christ last year, after many years of prayers.We were married UY. He still battles with D&A addictions and hasn't been delivered from them, I know this has...
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    Illness and failing marriage

    I admire you for trying and sticking with her. I know how frustrated you must be. I am speaking from the other side ( I am a wife that has been struggling from an accident which has left me with dwindling energy and constant physical pain) I have not kept up my end with the housekeeping and...