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Recent content by HeyBA12

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    How long is enough???

    I would be interested to know who God ordered to divorce. I am not aware of that portion of the Bible. God allowed divorce because of the hardness of hearts is the only thing I know of... I don't call that "ordering" it. In fact, I think it re-inforces the fact that He hates divorce. It's...
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    How long is enough???

    I would like to respond to Southern Cross.... I don't know what your life situation is, but mine is very similar to CBUBC's. My wife didn't want to be married to me anymore either. Even so, right now I am at peace with where I am at in life. I believe it is because of the position I have...
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    How long is enough???

    OK... I've got to say a few things here. And I have to admit, I'm a bit revved up. I know that a few of you won't like what I have to say. However, it comes from my own experience and revelation from God. I only share what I have learned from Him through my own separation and divorce. So...
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    How can I forgive my cheating husband??

    TNC - Before you go any further down any road (most specifically toward separation or divorce), I would recommend you check out a marriage restoration ministry called "Restore Ministries International". This ministry will speak to your issues directly; directly from the Bible. The founder of...
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    Can I ask a potentially offensive question?

    I kind of agree with drfeelgood. God wants us to be obedient in serving Him for His glory. Not because we are going to "be happy" as a result. It's very ironic though, how if we have that approach to life; God first, then I think we will "be happy" no matter what our circumstances as we...