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Recent content by H&E

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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    I'm new to this so forgive me if I already responded but I didnt see it so I am responding again, possibly! SMH. Thank you ShaulHaTarsi for sharing your choice!! It is greatly appreciated!
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    Okay! By George I think we've got it!!! Thanks for sharing EZoolander!!!
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    Thank you for sharing!!
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    Understood and appreciated! Thank you for understanding and kindness!
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    Thanks! Wondering and rightly so! Yet you did it! Would you like to briefly explain why you chose to do it even though they couldn't, or wouldn't tell you why they wanted you to do such a thing?
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    ValleyGal spent alot of her time talking about herself and her experience and ignored my post (and me) I told her that I was sorry for her pain and apparent ongoing source of pain from the experience but she came back with the "Ticky box" comment so thats why I responded as I did. (Which I felt...
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    Soooo, did you drop them when she asked, without knowing or did you drop them later?
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    THank you Thank you Thank you!! Maybe people are getting the wrong impression of my post. I am not seeking advice at all, just what would you do kind of feedback! I know what I would do in said situation, but am interested in a general consensus as to what others would do! Thank you for your...
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    I appreciate the response and your answer! FYI i'm just looking for our opinion (which you gave "thanks again) not advise! Now I am a bit confused by your opinion, in that, you would dump the friend at spouses request even if their reasons didn't make sense to you but you wouldn't if your spouse...
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    If you don't like the way my thread is structured, you do realize you don't have to participate right? For what its worth, I would rather you didn't post any further. Thanks for your time, even though it was a colossal waste of my own!
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    Thanks for the response, but what i really want to know is: if she didn't, wouldn't or couldn't give you a reason, what would you have done?!?
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    Thank you for answering the question!! I really appreciate it but I really don't know why folks find it so difficult to just answer based on the parameters! wow! I get it, its a thread but at the beginning I took great pains to set up the issue and all the considerations. I didnt say all...
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    ValleyGal we are not married (You and I) so if you dont like something dont participate! I am trying to get answers to a specific question under specific conditions and at this point you have made it about you and not the question! You are not being helpful and I suggest you please move on...
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    ValleyGal, I am sorry to hear of your troubles. It is obvious that the situation was quite hurtful and even now continues to be a source of pain. Even though I empathize with you, I must point out that my post is very specific concerning the parameters in which one MUST make their response. You...
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    Chosing To keep a friend or Dump Them?

    Ok, first off, this is NOT a troll thread! I have way better things to do with my time, and I don't get the troll thing anyway! Are people's lives that empty?!?! ALSO:I am NOT looking for advice!!! I only want to know if YOU were in this situation and YOUR spouse told YOU this under THESE...