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Recent content by Godspurpose07

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    I need advice

    Thank you so much for your kind words. I will take you up on your offer
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    I need advice

    Thank you! I was feeling so bad because even though I wanted to be happy about the news I couldn’t cause I was so overwhelmed by shame but reading all these responses makes me remember that a child is always a blessing of God and maybe this is what he wanted for me and I should embrace it even...
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    I need advice

    Yes God is good. Thank you first time I heard congrats since I found out. Beats hearing you were disobedient, you should have waited for God to give you someone he wanted you to be with, what are you going to do now, hopefully he doesn’t leave tu raising a child in your own and that’s all he...
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    I need advice

    I hope they would understand that. But I guess somethings need to be left to God. Maybe one day they will realize the pain they caused me.
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    I need advice

    Thank you so much for your words. Very encouraging in this tough time for me.
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    I need advice

    Hello, I am going through something very tough. I am 30 years old and I have been dating a guy for almost a year and we fell into fornication. As a result I ended up pregnant, I just found out and I know that once I tell my family especially my mom will not support me and completely turn their...
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    Dating

    Neither. They know nothing about him. My mom doesn’t even want me talking to her about him unless God has told me or her that he is the one he chose for me otherwise she says I’m wasting my time and I’m setting myself up for failure.
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    Dating

    I get what you are saying. I’m not saying I want to marry him tomorrow but we have talked about it which makes me happy to know that he is thinking about marriage. What my mom and aunt suggest is that I not even date him they believe that I should break up with him because God hasn’t told me...
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    Dating

    Yes. I definitely feel like he’s the one. Might sound cheesy but my heart told me the moment his eyes met mine. He finally found me on Facebook 3 months later and that’s how everything started. ❤️
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    Dating

    That’s exactly why I’m confused. I know people who are non Christians who have been married for many many years and Christians who divorced not long after getting married. The person before you said that she agreed with my mom and aunt and that I should ask God for a clear sign if that is my...
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    Dating

    Thanks so much for the response it gives me ease. My mom and my aunt who these comments are coming from come from failed marriages. They tell me that if they had been Christians when they married they would have waited on God’s approval first today they would still be married. I love my...
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    Dating

    Thanks for the prayers!!!!
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    Dating

    Ye yes I do love him. I love all his imperfections all his defects and my love for him makes me see above all that. And yes I do want to marry him he is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with and have a family with.
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    Dating

    NHello, I am 30 years old. I have been dating a guy from my church for about 8 months now. It has gotten pretty serious and he’s talked about marrying me. My mom and several other people have told me that if I have not prayed for this and God hadn’t directly told me he’s the one I should marry...
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    Dating

    Yeah I’m in the process of looking for a good Christian based counseling.