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Thank you so much for your kind words. I will take you up on your offer

Thank you! I was feeling so bad because even though I wanted to be happy about the news I couldn’t cause I was so overwhelmed by shame but reading all these responses makes me remember that a child is always a blessing of God and maybe this is what he wanted for me and I should embrace it even...

Yes God is good. Thank you first time I heard congrats since I found out. Beats hearing you were disobedient, you should have waited for God to give you someone he wanted you to be with, what are you going to do now, hopefully he doesn’t leave tu raising a child in your own and that’s all he...

I hope they would understand that. But I guess somethings need to be left to God. Maybe one day they will realize the pain they caused me.

Thank you so much for your words. Very encouraging in this tough time for me.

Hello, I am going through something very tough. I am 30 years old and I have been dating a guy for almost a year and we fell into fornication. As a result I ended up pregnant, I just found out and I know that once I tell my family especially my mom will not support me and completely turn their...

Neither. They know nothing about him. My mom doesn’t even want me talking to her about him unless God has told me or her that he is the one he chose for me otherwise she says I’m wasting my time and I’m setting myself up for failure.

I get what you are saying. I’m not saying I want to marry him tomorrow but we have talked about it which makes me happy to know that he is thinking about marriage. What my mom and aunt suggest is that I not even date him they believe that I should break up with him because God hasn’t told me...

Yes. I definitely feel like he’s the one. Might sound cheesy but my heart told me the moment his eyes met mine. He finally found me on Facebook 3 months later and that’s how everything started. ❤️

That’s exactly why I’m confused. I know people who are non Christians who have been married for many many years and Christians who divorced not long after getting married. The person before you said that she agreed with my mom and aunt and that I should ask God for a clear sign if that is my...

Thanks so much for the response it gives me ease. My mom and my aunt who these comments are coming from come from failed marriages. They tell me that if they had been Christians when they married they would have waited on God’s approval first today they would still be married. I love my...

Thanks for the prayers!!!!

Ye yes I do love him. I love all his imperfections all his defects and my love for him makes me see above all that. And yes I do want to marry him he is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with and have a family with.

NHello, I am 30 years old. I have been dating a guy from my church for about 8 months now. It has gotten pretty serious and he’s talked about marrying me. My mom and several other people have told me that if I have not prayed for this and God hadn’t directly told me he’s the one I should marry...

Yeah I’m in the process of looking for a good Christian based counseling.

Yes you are absolutely right. My mom comes from a troubled childhood and she was married to my father for 18 long abusive years. My dad was an alcoholic and he hit and cheated on my mom for almost their entire marriage. That is where she comes up with “all men are bad” there are not good men and...

Thanks for the support. I’ve seen more support her on this thread then I have from my own family. My mom suspects I’m talking to him and she tells me horrible things about him. She always brings him up in conversation and tells me I heard that guy is horrible and he has kids which means that...

I was not implying that God is my personal fairy godmother I was just asking because although I’ve been a Christian for a long time I just recently started really taking things serious and I didn’t know how to approach things like this with God.

Can I pray to God and ask him to make him my husband. How do I ask God to help my mom and family accept him?

Thanks for your response. It makes me feel a lot better. We are definitely in the romantic phase of the relationship and he makes me think of marriage that’s how much I like him. ☺️ I guess the only thing left here is to pray to God for his blessing and so my family can warm up to him.