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Recent content by GodHasAPlan

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    PENTECOSTAL - are you sure?????

    Well, I believe the Bible states that when we are baptised in the Spirit (baptised = emmersed or enveloped) - that we are born-again. For without the Spirit indwelling a believer - there is no conversion. Now the speaking with tongues of Angels as Paul says (heavenly language) - I feel in my...
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    Is it God will is to put sickness, and pain, depression,poverty , on us?

    God allows things to enter our lives. Nothing is beyond his notice or control. He has the power to heal - but He always doesn't. Is this because of a lack of faith on our part - perhaps at times - but certainly this is not always the case. As Jim Morrison said it, "No one gets out of here...
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    Seperated Again due to spouses addiction

    Wow - you've been through A LOT! It's overwhelming because it seems like nothing will ever change. But - I know that God is working on yours and my situation. God does want us to change and will do ANYTHING to get us to become more like Jesus. My brother has an addiction to crack cocaine and...
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    Soo...DivorceCare?

    I got a lot out of the Divorce Care sessions. I am still going - and I feel that the Lord can speak to you along the way.
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    Separating again

    Brother - God does want to work things out in your marriage. Sometimes I guess we need to let go and let God (such a trite saying - huh?). What I mean is sometimes WE get in the way as clinging jealous husbands (been there done that). Set the boundaries as the spiritual head of the house -...
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    How'd you do it?

    I is difficult going through what you are. Are you connected with a local church and getting support there? Reach out as God directs you sister.
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    How'd you do it?

    What's your marriage like? What bugs you? And - life of course is certainly not all about finances.
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    Need Wisdom Please

    Guess not. Women are the nurterers. Maybe you can get some free "Nannying" there.
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    any advice on my situation?

    I agree with IrvRiv, I think many times in a marriage a woman feels perhaps she's being "emotionally abused" because her husband is not meeting her "emotional needs" or not "making her happy". You really need to look at that in your life to get God's wisdom on it. Also, (My wife left me for my...
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    Need Wisdom Please

    Thanks guys, I know that we are to be on separate paths now. And its a challenge for me to be raising my (4) kids by myself. Now I know how all those single mothers feel! Whew. Appreciate all your prayers.
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    What's your marital status?

    My wife of 15 years left me for my brother April 2006. We have been separated since that time, with her currently in FLA and me up north. I want to be separate financially & physically until I have the final word from the Lord as to what to do.
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    The Divorce Clause: Marital Unfaithfulness

    Cor. 7 has a bit of more on the subject of Divorce. It speaks of unbelievers and believers in a marriage. First off - (especially since there is literally no church mediation in family mattters - the church leaves the dirty work to the world!) Matthew 18 should be employed wheras the church...
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    Need Wisdom Please

    Need Wisdom Pleas Hello All! I would appreciate the Christian community's input/prayers on my situation: Here it is in a nutshell. I'm a 50 year old male (Mr. Mom) with (4) kids (15b, 12g, 10g, 4b). My wife (perhaps soon to be ex-) fell in love with my brother while he was living in our...
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    Need Wisdom Please

    Hello All! I would appreciate the Christian community's input/prayers on my situation: Here it is in a nutshell. I'm a 50 year old male (Mr. Mom) with (4) kids (15b, 12g, 10g, 4b). My wife (perhaps soon to be ex-) fell in love with my brother while he was living in our house (we had brought...