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    Ok to pray for God to take away a job offer that I wasn't meant for?

    Just reporting back a year later... the work has been fun but a bit more overwhelming in scale that I had hoped. The firm has treated me well though and given me all the fun parts as well as recognition and support, so I think I can make a bigger difference here over the long term. Overall not...
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    Ok to pray for God to take away a job offer that I wasn't meant for?

    The firm just agreed to the increase (they said it was a stretch given the recruiter fee, but one they were willing to make because of how good a fit they think I am), so i'll take that as the sign! lol Thank God!
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    Ok to pray for God to take away a job offer that I wasn't meant for?

    So I asked the firm for a modest salary increase, even though I thought the existing number was hard to beat for a smaller firm doing this project type. Maybe if it's not meant to be, they'd say no to the increase.
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    Ok to pray for God to take away a job offer that I wasn't meant for?

    To answer some questions here, I’m not concerned with longevity – it’s common practice to switch firms every 4-6 years to advance one’s career, so 8 years is already a long time. And I’m looking at a bigger long-term picture so I’m not concerned with market forces either. My main concern is...
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    Ok to pray for God to take away a job offer that I wasn't meant for?

    I've been an architect at the same firm for 8 years (basically right out of school), and while I love it here and get a lot of trust from the higher-ups to design fancy civic/institutional buildings, I felt my calling and real strength is in multi-family residential work, a market that my...