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Recent content by FundyChick

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    AIDS Vaccine?

    I apologize. :D
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    AIDS Vaccine?

    If everyone thinks that sex is the only way HIV is transmitted, then everyone is sadly mistaken. And saying the HPV shot will condone premarital sex is basically saying that a tetanus shot will encourage people to step on rusty nails.
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    Abstinence ed?

    I can't defy something if I don't believe in it. Our "sinful human nature" isn't perfect, but sex is animal instinct. We can't stay pure forever.
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    Abstinence ed?

    Sex ed is messed up in my opinion. We're being taught that sex is automatically bad and that we'll get pregnant and have STDs if we engage in sex before marriage, regardless of whether we use birth control or not. But it isn't true at all, birth control and condoms are actually very effective...
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    Lightning phobia

    To be honest, I don't really believe there is a God, but thanks. I like lightning when I'm far enough from it where I don't hear the thunder. I just hate it when I do hear thunder because that's when I know it's close enough to hit something very close to me. :(
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    Lightning phobia

    Thanks. The only time I remember not being afraid of storms was when I was seven, and living in a big city. When I moved to a tiny town in North Carolina I was scared. Earlier this year I was less scared and starting to get over it but then my neighbor's house got hit and now I have a...
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    Losing Self Esteem.

    age seven. That's when I moved to this sorry excuse of a town and got bullied as soon as I moved in. My sister made friends instantly and I got bullied. I HATE THIS FREAKING PLACE.
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    the way we look

    I get self-conscious when my mom comments on how my acne is finally clearing up. I was bullied all through middle school because of it. :(
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    Opinioin! What causes a bad self esteem?

    I've lived in a smal NC town since I was 7. I've been bullied/ignored by everyone in my neighborhood since. I was bullied up until 8th grade (last year). I was called ugly because of my acne and I was constantly in my sister's shadow. The sports coaches around here picked favorites and I...
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    The Definition of Marriage

    Marriage is between two people who love each other. Simple as that.
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    What Makes an Authoritarian?

    I question alll authority. If I am at school, I will decide if they own me or not. If I am at home, I have to obey. God, however... if he gave us all free will, he can't be mad at us when we think for ourselves.
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    Selective-Sex Abortion?

    Abortion is not murder. A fetus is not a human being, it has not adopted the traits of a human being. It's biology. But while I disagree with sex-selective abortion, it's not my choice, now is it?
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    The true cost of sex under 16

    Errrr... Just because 16 year olds have been raising families for millenia, it doesn't mean that it's right. It's custom in developing countries for 16 year olds to me married with children, but in first-world countries it's not right. We're presumably talking about the US here, which is not...
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    How the Pilgrims shaped our sex lives

    Ah, I saw that one. It was quite refreshing to know that North Carolina is completely wrong by teaching us that homosexuality doesn't exist and pre-marital sex wasn't invented until the 1960's.^_^
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    Selective-Sex Abortion?

    I do approve of the woman's righ to choose. I may disagree with the reasons, and I especially disagree with sex-selective abortions, but again, it's the mother's choice, not mine.