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Recent content by freedmfighter

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    Wives, would you want to be called your husbands girlfriend?

    No...I'm married to my husband.....I'm not his girlfriend.
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    Bible study?......NO WAY!

    Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. It all has been helpful one way or another. It got to the point that maybe I was asking too much to have some freedom to go the bible studies, but as I can see it's more about him with his pride and insecurities. Honestly....when I asked him...
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    Bible study?......NO WAY!

    THanks for replies.....it has helped me to get my thoughts straightened out. Normaly when my husband is working on tuesdays...I will stay home and be the secretary and I have no problem with that....but if he's at home because there is no jobs on that day....I would love to have the freedom to...
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    Bible study?......NO WAY!

    Yep...that was my husband's responce when I asked him if I could go back to tuesday morning bible studies. (kids are at school at this time). His reason...is that he doesn't have time to do the things what he wants to do and when he wants to do something he wants to do without me and the...
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    Official "Married Couples Off-Topic Thread"

    Heading off camping this coming tuesday.....I'm looking out the window at the motorhome and I'm thinking....man...it takes alot of work to get that darn thing loaded up and ready to go.
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    My lower back.....a real pain.

    Thanks for all your responces. I'll take everyone of them into consideration.
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    My lower back.....a real pain.

    Hi....I was wondering if you guys can help me. My lower back has become a real thorn in my side. Everytime I start excercising....I throw my back out and I'm crippled for the next two weeks with numerous chiro appointments. Is there any excercises I can do out there without making it...
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    I don't understand the young people...they set NO boundaries in relationships!

    I don't have any teens in this house..but I think alot of it starts with the parents if the parents are not going to set boundaries...then the teens are going to start straying to wherever there is fun....even if it compromises thier faith. The thing is...the lack of boundaries is not going to...
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    Help me understand this logic.

    I encourage my girls to get a career before they get married...because once they get married and have kids...getting a career is next to impossible. Plus it's a good back up in case they are suddenly the sole provider for their family.
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    kids or no kids

    Now that she has her mind set on having kids and you don't want any...it would be best to depart...and this is coming from my own experience. Nothing is worst being married to somebody who wants kids so badly and yet the other spouse doesn't. It's going to cause alot of grief and anger...and...
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    How many children did you have after 30?

    Had triplets at 35...my first and last three.
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    My faith is weak and I'm finding myself increasingly attracted to Islam...

    It's very interesting that as woman...your looking into Islaam to find some sort of fullfillment. Noting where you are from...I've read lots of articles from the UK and it has mentioned that many women are turning to Islaam for reasons like you said. After going on youtube and seeing how...
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    Can I ask another question about romantic love?

    Hey....I've been married for 19 yrs.......and lived those years without romance. So...I tossed that thought out the window...because I know it's just fantasy...even though I craved to have some sort of emotional connection with my husband. Unfortnately..he never had romantic bone in his...
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    MMA and Christianity

    With the day of evil getting stronger every day....having some training in mma is probably not a bad idea...if the whole idea is to defend yourself from an attacker. (As you know majority of attackers are out to hurt and maim.) But this should be between you and God....there are going to be some...
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    I will NEVER post my feeling on here again...

    Hey flower...... please keep posting your feelings on the 'depression' thread. I too have been depressed alot....to the point I don't want live anymore. Unfortunately, people, especially my own husband, has been the worst of the judgers..and that's why I come on the depression forum. One...