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Recent content by Fowler

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    War against lust

    Dear Burtonian, Welcome! It's already a victory that you came here! Like you, I am also fighting with lust. During urge, I read psalm 27 1-6, and 2 Timothy 2:22. They help a lot. I close my eyes, make a deep breath, read the scripture and all the troubles, doubts, images, and evil is gone. I...
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    A cry out for help fighting masturbation

    Hello! God Bless you! In my case prayers and cold shower helped me a lot. Every morning, with no pity to one's flesh rush under cold water with prayers. Start from 2 mins, than 3 and so on untill you reach 10. Every morning and every night! Feel no mercy to flesh! I am 21 and willing to be your...
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    cold shower hypothermia

    hey there Thanks alot! No, I was experiencing only some weakness and drowsiness... Nothing else. 24 hours passed, so far, nothing special... All in all, with God's help it's all gone! Thanks guys!
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    cold shower hypothermia

    hey everyone! So, today I was taking shower and accidently switched water to cold, really really cold, it lasted for 10 seconds, but I cold feel mild disorientation, drowsiness, weakness, and confusion. Sounds weird, but I could hear how my heart's rate became to decrease... However, it was...
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    I'm struggling again

    Heya! 1) Install K9 filter to prevent prn or other stuff... A close friend must take care of passwords and stuff. Sometimes it's so tempting to disable them 2) When I feel urge I repeat 2 Tim 2:22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace. God Bless!
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    I'm struggling again

    Hello! I was in the same boat with you, but with Gods grace I managed to overcome this sinful act. Could you tell what makes you M? Did you try installing K9 filter? I am sure this internet filter will help you alot. Feel free to ask any question! We are with you!
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    1 year!

    go man go! I wasnt that strong as you and failed on 6th month... Dont let procrastination overcome you! Pray and move move move! God is with you!
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    Please pray...

    I will mention your name in my prayers! God Bless!
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    Is it depression?

    O guys! Thanks for your responses! I will go to a doc next week! God Bless!
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    Is it depression?

    Hey guys! So... I have noticed that it's 2nd autumn, when I encounter these symptoms... The thing is... I love snow, snowing or rain alot... Sounds, wind,cold and so on... However, 4 years ago we moved to the country, where the sun shines 350 days... I was angry a bit, but still could handle...
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    I'm a horrible person...

    hey there! I am not gay personally, however these advices might help you... 1)stop these gay relationships... Tell him that u cant stand it anymore... 2)Enroll in church community service or something like this... There will be good and honest christian girls. Try to date them( I said date, no...
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    My Struggle...

    Hello! When I was reading your story, I realized that me and you didnt go too far away. I "discovered" M at the age of 16 and felt into struggle for 3 years. Now I am 19 and with Gods grace 6 months went without it. I was justifying M by saying " I feel no love and therefore, I have to...
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    Accountability Partner

    Heya! Ask your wife to install and manage K9 filter(K9 Web Protection - Free Internet Filter and Parental Control Software | Free Internet Filtering and Parental Controls Software). It will block all possible sources of your temptations. In addition, only your wife MUST know password to...
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    Sometimes I can't take it

    Hey there! I am 19 male and experience exactly the same... I was praying, avoiding everything, which could arose lust, not looking at girls more then 3 sec ... However, God showed me the right path... After watching The Karate Kid, I joined Aikido club. Its techniques helped me to...