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Recent content by ExDrip

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    After a year of having sex, we're finding it really hard to stop

    where did getting caught come into play? Just be careful, that's all. Life is way too short to be with someone for so long (years) and put limits on your relationship because of religion. There's a chance that the next day it could be over, so live life to the fullest.
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    How do you know whether to break up or not?

    If you've been together for as long as you have, and don't see your relationship progressing anywhere past dating, than move on. There are plenty other fish in the sea.
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    Sleeping together, quite literally

    Just sleeping :)
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    Sex outside marriage but in a committed relationship - completely wrong?

    It's not wrong to go a step further. Just be careful, don't get pregnant, and don't let your relationship turn completely physical. Good luck.
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    She was raped...

    why is she so scared....did you rape her? My advice to you, if you stay, get a job...and fast.
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    Hypersexuality

    its definitely possible
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    Hypersexuality

    I can help. Sex is great, just don't get pregnant and don't make it the center of your relationship. Make sure there is a balance between quality time and sex, so you dont make your entire relationship into just a physical one. Have fun :)
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    Find myself distancing... because of guilt.

    when my girlfriend and I first got together we got a little crazy, and soon realized it was wrong. We took small steps backwards to the point now where we barley kiss anymore, and really, its not that important to me. Whats important is being with her and staying pure until the day she gets a ring!
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    Girlfriend needs "Emotional Spiritual Support"... what does this mean?

    Thanks for the suggjestions, they are slowly getting worked into use now. I appreciate your time and advice
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    A "break"

    My girlfriend is to the point where she wants to take a "break" aswell, but for slightly different reasons. I have very strong with god and she wants to take a break so she can find herself and find her purpose in life. She doubts that I am completely in love with god, I think that I just am...
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    Disagreement on number of future children

    Start with having the first two, and you might change your mind :)
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    Purity according to God's standards

    Remember that nomatter how hard you try, you will always be human, and have human desires, it is a fact of life. My girlfriend and i are in the same position, and as a guy, nomatter how hard i try and focus, once we are alone together, the mood completely changes and chemicals in your body...