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Recent content by emmasmum

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    Confused!

    Sorry, maybe i should rephrase. He asked me to not contact him, go away and pray and see if i get a feeling of peace about the situation and only phone him if i did.
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    Worried about losing salvation

    I have been saved since at least 1991 when I was baptised and afterwards received a powerful anointing by the Holy Spirit one night alone in my bedroom, but I still am afraid of not being accepted. I think its my number 1 fear in life. I have also had laughter in the spirit and gone burning hot...
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    Anyone else like me?

    I was wondering if there are any other younger people out there (i'm 32) who have lost both of their parents already. I feel i can't relate to my husband and friends as they can't understand how I feel. I am an only child as well.
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    Lost the feeling!

    Please help me. I do not have any desire for my husband anymore. We have been married for 8 years but the last few years we have had quite a lot of problems. In short, he has made me frightened of him with the way he could be (agressive and arguing during conversations that weren't controversial...
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    Anyone want to come on my Alpha Course Introductory Meal?

    I was wondering if theres anyone out there who would like to come to my church's meal at a local chinese restaurant. I have been before and taken a friend but she never followed it up afterwards. This offer is open to anyone, especially people "on the fence"! I'm always interested to meet new...
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    I feel unable to have sex with my husband..

    Hi, My problem is that I have no desire for my husband any more and I think its because of the way he has treated me in the past. I have often seen him as a bully and being arrogant. Someone else has called him a "male chauvanist pig" , to me and my mum didn't like him and worried that...
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    I worry quite a lot....

    Hi, You know like the songs says, "Cos its grace, theres nothing i can do..." I sometimes wonder that although I have never turned away from Jesus, is there anything that can affect my salvation or is it just the rewards? I mean say you did something bad or didn't think what you were doing...
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    Anyone similar to me?

    What would you do if: 1. Your husband and yourself were christians but he had a very dominating, bullying way about him and had often reduced you to tears. 2. You felt that something in your physical attraction to him had died because of 1. 3. You prayed about it but were confused about...
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    "Emotional" Cheating

    What if your husband is emotionally abusive to you and you start noticing men that are quiet and placid and feeling a slight attraction to them?
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    Not in love...

    No, my parents have not suffered addiction or abuse. They were just regular normal people. I am offended by the last post. I am telling my story as it is. There are no exagerations and I was hoping to find some sympathetic people on here. It doesn't help when you try to tell your story and...
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    Not in love...

    Sorry!!???
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    Not in love...

    Hi, We have been married for 7 years and have 2 little girls of 6 and 3. The problem is that my husband has been what I (and a few other people) would call a bully to me in the past. I felt a lot of resentment towards him and I would often talk about him to my mum. She has now passed on (5...
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    I find this upsetting...

    Hi again, In response to a few people, I don't enjoy sex because my husband has really been emotionally abusive in the past. He will start arguing over what I would say is nothing and go on and on for ages about something even though i am saying nothing back and crying. I have wanted to...