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Recent content by EbonNelumbo

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    introduction and prayer request

    Hi Molly :) Hope things do level out for you so you're not suffering, until then, if you ever want to talk or anything, just message me
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    Constant Back Pain

    Have you had an MRI? Do you know exactly what is wrong with your back? For me, I have spondylosis with formainal narrowing, herniated discs at levels L4L5S1 and bulging discs at levels L2L3. And then there's all the symptoms (that's a long list!) I recently underwent a foraminotomy to relieve...
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    Opioids And Drowsiness

    I personally don't have this problem. I have been on opiates for years due to a car accident, and an ex husband accident, that left me with intractable pain. I just recently had a foraminotomy on my back (rt side) for sciatica and have had some relief and eased up on the meds. Some opiates, in...
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    What do you think of Eminem?

    He's a pretty gifted artist. Swear words or not, he's the one doing the songs and obviously has some serious skill. I like him, personally.
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    Satan in heavy metal

    Really? Wow. That's at LEAST a bit of a stretch--PBS isn't out to indoctrinate kids, a sense of humor is usually at least the best idea to get around being a narrow minded individual...:doh:
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    Didn't It Rain--Hugh Laurie

    *Drool*
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    Didn't It Rain--Hugh Laurie

    Anyone else addicted to HL's music?
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    Insecurity and the ex wife - Question for the remarried women here.

    You're not alone in this at ALL. My husband's ex had two kids with him. They are (thankfully) both grown, though we have a 5 year old son (which my amazing husband has taken over on since Luke was 1 since Luke's biodad walked away...to put it nicely). My husband's ex is a 'firm believer' and...
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    Okay, let the judgment begin...

    We've had some talks. Robert and Benjamin a lot more frequently, though less this past summer as they were living with Ben's grandma, who is the ex wife's mom...things were stressed during that time. Now she bought them a house and there's a huge housewarming party with a LOT of people...
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    Okay, let the judgment begin...

    Well, I've been married before, and I'm married now. First marriage was a trainwreck, to put it in nice terms. We'll call the ex, "James". Second marriage was...lacking. We'll call the ex "Benjamin." Onto the third! Third time is a charm right? :thumbsup: This is my husband, who we can...
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    Hello ORYGUN!!!

    Hi there :) Checking in from Oregon as well, born here as well.
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    Xanax...How...i cant stand you.

    Xanax is...ohh boy, I don't even know how to begin. I am about to leave to purchase some memory for my phone, but I WILL respond here.
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    CF grieves the loss of a family member

    Rest Nat, I love you
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    ive got to go

    JO? Where are you going? You KNOW I have told you giving up is not an option, so please PM me sweetie or ping me on Facebook.
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    low:(

    (((JO))) I missed you sweetie. Please feel free to hit me up and we can chat. Sweetie, if you think you may need to go to the hospital, I advise you to talk to your doctor if you can get in soon and discuss your concerns, otherwise, if you would be safer as an inpatient, I would appreciate you...