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Recent content by earningmywings

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    Naturism (nudism)

    a) Is the Holy Spirit awkward about indwelling some of God's temples? No, but notice God's temples are not naked at church, work etc b) It tells some people that they are not acceptable as they are,so hide your bodily horrors. Naked? Absolutely ! ( hiding bodily horrors?that's why public toilets...
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    Platonic bed sharing while married.

    Me too! (in response to the weirdness of this thread)
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    Naturism (nudism)

    Yes you can still be a christian But I think there is such a thing as conduct in a social environment. I personally believe it is a form of voyeurism. I always find it funny that many men often say it is part of their makeup to be visual and enjoy the female form, enjoy a good cleavage, short...
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    Platonic bed sharing while married.

    I appreciate your honesty. I just think part of really honouring your wife is laying boundaries that give your relationship exclusivity that are just for you and her. To be open with you, my concern is why on earth would a woman who loves her man and is sexually attracted to him give him...
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    Platonic bed sharing while married.

    Honestly this thread makes me wonder. Really? All this talk and liberal views and excuses. It's not NORMAL to have such an intimate relationship with another woman while you are married. You men are full of it. You cannot be just "friends" with another female, and sleeping in a bed with one ...
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    Christians: How do you know that a god exists?

    I don't..it's called faith The best way for myself to explain it , is rather like a scene in Indianna Jones where he steps out into a void to cross a canyon and the moment he takes the step into thin air , big towers of rock come up to meet him. That to me is faith..it will only happen when...
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    Should a Son ask his Dad if he's been viewing Pornography?

    Absolutely. Family is always your business. If you cant be curious or question each other in a loving environment then what is the purpose of real relationship. You do not have judge him or be pious (both of which I am not suggesting you are) but why not ask his stance and views even? In this...
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    The terminal decline of Christianity in New Zealand

    It is my personal view that NZ is on the decline in ALL areas not just Christianity. But where in the world is it not?
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    Platonic bed sharing while married.

    As long as she can share a bed with a platonic friend of the opposite sex too...mmmmm I think the post above said it perfectly, 'Why would you?"
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    Are you OK with the blurring and mixing of gender roles?

    For me being grounded in who I am gives me the foundation to develop characteristics that are not intrinsic to me. I am female, bought up in the feminine, remained true to that nature by choice , culture and experience. My primary roles come into play at first instance, but because I learned...
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    What is the difference between pornography and prostitution?

    I would say the only difference is the legalities
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    Am I expecting too much from men?

    Your post made good sense, thank you for some positive suggestions. We have sorted things out wonderfully this weekend, where we are both extremely happy with an outcome of a good balanced respect for each other. :thumbsup: God is awesome
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    Am I expecting too much from men?

    Depends on who your yard stick is. By world standards , do what you want. By God's standards it is inherently wrong. Don't you even think with a world of wonderful people out there and the gift of emotional and physical connection it seems so lame that society has reduced to the level of sitting...
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    Am I expecting too much from men?

    You are into porn aren't you? :D
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    Am I expecting too much from men?

    Asking advice about a behavioural issue is not critising.