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a) Is the Holy Spirit awkward about indwelling some of God's temples? No, but notice God's temples are not naked at church, work etc b) It tells some people that they are not acceptable as they are,so hide your bodily horrors. Naked? Absolutely ! ( hiding bodily horrors?that's why public toilets...

Me too! (in response to the weirdness of this thread)

Yes you can still be a christian But I think there is such a thing as conduct in a social environment. I personally believe it is a form of voyeurism. I always find it funny that many men often say it is part of their makeup to be visual and enjoy the female form, enjoy a good cleavage, short...

I appreciate your honesty. I just think part of really honouring your wife is laying boundaries that give your relationship exclusivity that are just for you and her. To be open with you, my concern is why on earth would a woman who loves her man and is sexually attracted to him give him...

Honestly this thread makes me wonder. Really? All this talk and liberal views and excuses. It's not NORMAL to have such an intimate relationship with another woman while you are married. You men are full of it. You cannot be just "friends" with another female, and sleeping in a bed with one ...

I don't..it's called faith The best way for myself to explain it , is rather like a scene in Indianna Jones where he steps out into a void to cross a canyon and the moment he takes the step into thin air , big towers of rock come up to meet him. That to me is faith..it will only happen when...

Absolutely. Family is always your business. If you cant be curious or question each other in a loving environment then what is the purpose of real relationship. You do not have judge him or be pious (both of which I am not suggesting you are) but why not ask his stance and views even? In this...

It is my personal view that NZ is on the decline in ALL areas not just Christianity. But where in the world is it not?

As long as she can share a bed with a platonic friend of the opposite sex too...mmmmm I think the post above said it perfectly, 'Why would you?"

For me being grounded in who I am gives me the foundation to develop characteristics that are not intrinsic to me. I am female, bought up in the feminine, remained true to that nature by choice , culture and experience. My primary roles come into play at first instance, but because I learned...

I would say the only difference is the legalities

Your post made good sense, thank you for some positive suggestions. We have sorted things out wonderfully this weekend, where we are both extremely happy with an outcome of a good balanced respect for each other. :thumbsup: God is awesome

Depends on who your yard stick is. By world standards , do what you want. By God's standards it is inherently wrong. Don't you even think with a world of wonderful people out there and the gift of emotional and physical connection it seems so lame that society has reduced to the level of sitting...

You are into inappropriate content aren't you? :D

Asking advice about a behavioural issue is not critising.

They are god's standards, not mine. He requires us to submit our thoughts and body over to him as we walk in the spirit. Better to have harsh standards than none at all.:)

Agreed. Counselling is the answer I believe.:)

It is cheating. When you get your sexual satisfaction from something other than your partner you are cheating. Cheating them out of the opportunity to have sex and to be satisfied. inappropriate content is selfish and has no place in a serious, intimate, exclusive relationship. It is disloyal. God made sex in...

I am not offended :). I did do wrong sleeping with him and perhaps falling in love before I knew all this. We are both older than 45, I simply did not realise this would be the type of issue I would be having at this age. I was married 25 years before it ended 4 years ago to an alcoholic, the...

NO compromise. I do not want any man who has chosen me as a life partner looking at others having sex or another womans privates to get off. As far as I am concerned, it would not be acceptable to go down the road and look in at a couple having sex or a woman mastabating, how on earth does...