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Recent content by Dim

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    "Emotional" Cheating

    I'll co-sign that. My wife had a "friend" who she hid from me over 3 years ago and I still have times that I question her about where she's been or who she's on the phone with. It was very damaging to our relationship. Just as much as if it were physical, because when you realize you've been...
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    "Date Night" ideas :)

    Indoor rock climbing is fun to do together. You can race up the wall.
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    She wants a new baby

    Thank you. I have decided to do just what you have said. It seems to be the opinion of this board that I'm being selfish, so I'm going to evaluate that and at the same time try and communicate my empathy for her feelings as well as the rationality as I see it.
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    She wants a new baby

    Thanks for your thoughts I know it's expensive, but it doubles as physical therapy for my little girl. When she started she wasn't strong enough to pedal a bike. And regualr therapy is really boring for her. So that's probably the biggest reason she got into it in the first place. I guess she...
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    She wants a new baby

    Honest opinions are what I come here for. You haven't offended me and you are right. Thank you. I am being selfish. I don't know if appealing is the right word, and I don't want to say it was fun, but with the first one, I was excited because it was my fist and I wanted to be the best dad I...
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    She wants a new baby

    I don't. We have a boy and a girl. 6 and 9. Here's my reasons for not wanting more: Money wise we're at the point that we can provide every need for the kids we have, and if we wanted to, give them just about all they wanted, but,my son has basketaball leagues and camps, my daugter is in...
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    Opinions from men please

    It sounds like he is having second thoughts. Whatever it is that he didn't like about your past, is it still in the past? If it is, I can't see why it would matter to him. Not to be mean, but he's 45, anyone he meets is gonna have skeletons in thier closet, or something he doesn't like about...
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    Sex: Entering into this physical union.....

    I'm sorry if it sounded like I thought sex was the solution:) I think she should start him off by trying to get him to go on walks after dinner every nite and go from there. Also, if he's mentally tired all the time, excercise will help that. After a good workout nothing can get me down...
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    Sex: Entering into this physical union.....

    Isn't it amazing what 20 minutes will do for you though? I think that's what the guy needs. Excercise. Sex is great excercise by the way.
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    Testimony time!!!

    No I haven't. Should I? I know keeping things from her is wrong, but if it's no longer bothering or having any effect on me, should I even bother hurting her feelings? I feel like that might complicate things even more. Please, give me your opinions, everyone. Thanks :)
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    Testimony time!!!

    I realize this my be the wrong forum but I think you who visit this one can relate more. My wife and I have been struggling with our marriage allot! We've got one isssue as of late this seems like it a deal breaker. Things are really bad at my house. So what does satan do? He sends a...
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    Is humor part of your marriage?

    God gave us a sense of humor right? Laughter is good natural medicine.
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    All this sex talk!!!

    :D :clap: ^_^ I'm glad I wasn't drinking anything when I read that! By the way I just barely remembered that dancing banana up by my name!
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    Is humor part of your marriage?

    When I ask my wife why shoe doesn't laugh at my jokes like she did when we were dating and newlyweds, she says that my jokes never were funny, she was just trying to "get me in the sack"
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    Please pray for wisdom

    :amen: Hard work is ahead, but it's not supposed to be easy, right? Thanks again to all of you.:thumbsup: