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Recent content by Dhebi

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    Demonizing those who switch Churches

    I literally quoted what our pastor said in introducing the Lord's Supper (I have it on tape). I posted it here because I literally don't want to be a "whisperer", this is anonymous, and I need Christians to talk to about this. It is a very serious situation to me. This church is my...
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    Demonizing those who switch Churches

    Thank you so much for your encouragement and scriptual references. For 5 years we've been on Genesis (Wednesdays) and Proverbs (Sunday nights) with Sunday mornings being what the pastor calls the "hard preaching" we all need and other pastors are too weak to preach. He is not one to preach...
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    Demonizing those who switch Churches

    Thank you so much for your consoling words. Tomorrow is my meeting with the pastor. I am trying to stay focused on God's word today.
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    Demonizing those who switch Churches

    My son did not abandon Christ, if anything he has more passion for his first love than ever. I also will not be separated from Christ. I will be speaking with my Pastor on Friday. I am so praying that God will work on his heart by then. I am constantly praying for HIS direction in this...
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    Demonizing those who switch Churches

    It is an independent Baptist Church so he is the only leader and has not fellowship with other churches. I don't want to be a "whisperer", but I am praying with the one person who caught me on the way out the door - who wasn't in the room so doesn't know what the dispute is. I got up and...
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    Demonizing those who switch Churches

    I have an appointment with him on Friday. He is not a humble guy and he doesn't admit mistakes specifically but just generically and often refers to mistakes he made with people who left. And, he complains in sermons that people don't tell him why they leave. So, I am going to confront him...
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    Demonizing those who switch Churches

    Yes I feel that way too but I have little choice; there's Catholic, Lutheran, tongue-speaking Charismatics (where my son went) and this Baptist Church. I want to stay in my church but I cannot condone him demonizing people, especially my son. There's more to why my son left but he left...
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    Demonizing those who switch Churches

    Last week, in leading us to the Lord’s Supper, my pastor (Baptist) used the opportunity to liken people who leave our Church to Judas Iscariot, and I believe thereby to Satan. He further demonized people who leave us by labeling them as betrayers and equated their betrayal of us with Judas...