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Recent content by d4deborah

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    Only option for mature man - a younger woman

    Maybe because i have had a rather open life and now over 50.. i jsut enjoy whatever I can, make the most of the cards that get dealt to you
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    Mature chat thread..... (2)

    Just wanted to say hi to you all, 50 something lady from UK.ml ooking for friends to chat and maybe more.. who knows..
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    Polyamory

    very well written eudaimonist
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    Polyamory

    I am not happy with lots of decisions.. my ex encouraged and supported me meeting other men. left a lot of things in my head
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    Is It a Sin to touch in a Sexless Marriage?

    I agree with this totally, sex is something that is very special in marriage and provides acceptance as well as excitement in a safe and nurturing environment. I thank God for that gift for sure. Sadly my marriage broke up for totally other reasons and I do miss that side of things but do have...
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    The pain of cuckoldry...

    some very interesting posts here, thank you all for sharing. when i married i had no idea what the next 30 years would bring. I am still coming to terms with all the things I did some forced some freely accepted. Not really happy with things.. but it is my life deborah
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    starting over 40

    this year is going to be a great year! I hope. A year of new start for me, i feel both excitement and a little worry ( over 20 years in abusive marriage leaves its mark.. and yes I know I should have known better). So just wanted to share that this morning
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    Esther fast

    I was wondering if anyone has tried an Esther fast. i tried a few months to help with a specific issue. Sadly no great revelation for me. Has anyone has experiences they would like to share to encourage? thank you Deborah
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    Esther fast

    I was wondering if anyone had tried Esther fast? i tried a couple of months ago as I have a few issues from the past that I wanted help with. It was hard of course but sadly did not help me much. I hear others who have had wonderful revelations, not for me:( Deborah
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    If You Have A Porn Addiction Or Know Someone Who Does You Need To Read This!!!

    help_the_lord, i was for many years on the other side of the relationship in that my husband encouraged me. originally when I was younger I thought it would open our relationship, over time it grew to be bondage for me and he demanded more things. I should have known what to do then, but could...
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    40 something f

    new to this forum just wanted to say hi. Divorced lady from UK open to new friends male or female. Enjoy my faith and reasonably happy with life after many years of abuse of all sorts. Just like to chat a little
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    40 something f

    new to this forum jsut wanted to say hi. Divorced lady from UK open to new friends male or female. Enjoy my faith and reasonably happy with life after many years of abuse of all sorts. Just like to chat a little
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    Divorcing lying, cheating husband

    i am new to this forum, but I just wanted to say that porn can be very destructive in a marriage I know! I was brought up to take my vows seriously and sadly spent too many years with someone who lets just say was very open minded in his life style. I know it sounds very silly now but at the...
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    Why do some married people think its okay to get fat?

    well i guess i would like to be a bit slimmer. I always thought that my ex liked it, or so he told me.. until the day he told me that he had fallen in love with another woman because she was slimmer. Now that hurt at the time, but time heals
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    Turning 40!

    ah well 40 something is a nice age..but then i maybe a little biased:)