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Recent content by Cm1989

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    My hours have been cut at work

    Praying for his provision
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    Just found out one of my coworkers is a psychic!

    Yeah, we can never truly know people.
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    Just found out one of my coworkers is a psychic!

    Being that it's work and not someone at church or elsewhere that you discovered their personal beliefs I don't see why you should be concerned you didn't know this. Coworkers don't tend to share as much about personal lives as in other circles. I personally would be interested to ask questions...
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    Trump Justifies Shutdown By Claiming it Only Hurts Democrats

    I think both parties have become all about hurting the other. Whether they say this as publicly as Trump or not there actions tend to show it. I don't wholly affiliate with either side. Depends on the problem at hand and what the candidate is willing to do or whose pocket their in. Sadly, most...
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    Family divides

    Hi all, so my prayer is for my family. My sister has been using drugs her whole life in and out of prison. She has 5 kids and list them all. I just found out she had a 6th and plans to keep it. My reaction was quite harsh to say the least. The blindness they live in is just astonishing. I used...
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    Struggling with IFB convictions

    Thanks all for the comments. I did bring these things up, but as many said discussions are fruitless. I did move churches for many reasons not just KJV only b/c I can respect a conviction. In the end distance and location to family moved me to a closer church in my community. Loving it so far...
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    Nephilim (Reformed Calvinists Only)

    Researcher Steve Quayle has written many books on the Nephilim. He has a website as well stevequayle.com that you may find a lot of information from. I have some of his books they are very informative.
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    Settling or waiting

    I would wait. The problems that could come with settling just wouldn't be worth it. With realistic expectations though I'm not waiting for a prince charming.
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    Men's recovery housing idea

    I think it is an awesome idea as someone who has had to recover from bad choices. There would obviously have to be strict rules. Ex: -Random drug testing. Set up a system that would randomly pick someone every few days or a week. The longer they are there maybe the less that person gets tested...
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    Pros and cons of being single

    The pros for me are similar I can do what I want when I want, and living alone is nice because you are not dealing with the issues that come with dealing with other peoples problems or messes, etc. I also find that you have more freedom in serving the Lord and are able to do a lot more. Cons...
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    Female Accountability Thread

    Praying for you during this struggle. It is always idle time that is the hardest. I have found that when I think about the fact that God is always with me and seeing what I am doing it becomes uncomfortable to do such things. This does not always work but it helps. I also think about how often I...
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    How important is it to share with your family about your struggles with sexuality?

    I have had the same struggles. For me I have only found one friend that I can trust to share these struggles with and not feel judged. I trust this person to pray for me and share with me biblical truths to help realign my thinking with God's word. I personally just don't feel it necessary to...
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    Do you ever

    I've always known it would be difficult for me to find someone. I am not out going and more of an introvert so I don't socialize much. But my prayer has always been for the Lord to bring me the person he wants me to marry. I trust that God will work out the perfect circumstances because...
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    Which comes first?

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    Prayer for Contentment and Trust in the Lord

    Hi all, and thank you in advance. I live in Southern California and cost of living here is incredibly high. I find myself worrying so much about finances such as rent, etc. I am in a good position now praise God, but rents are continually going up while pay doesn't. I find myself worrying...