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Recent content by cintasatu

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    Seeking advice

    Thank you Inkachu, I'm slowly coming to terms with the fact that I may have to let her go and I've been praying asking God to help me get through with as less pain as possible. I know He doesn't give us more than we can handle, so I'm sure I can get through this with prayer and blessings...
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    Seeking advice

    Haha good point. I feel like bahasa Indonesia is quite liberal when it comes to where the words are placed in a sentence. For example, there is not past, present, or future tense. With the phrase you mentioned, you could say "Minta satu jus mangga" or "Minta jus mangga satu". I never took a...
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    Seeking advice

    Hey LinkH, Thank you for your reply. It's just been tough to let go because over the last 2 years we were really committed and had made plans for marriage, family etc. and she was absolutely in love with me. There were definitely no commitment issues or trust issues. But I feel like the...
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    Seeking advice

    Thank you for your reply iambren. I have told her several times how much she means to me, but she's in the 'stubborn phase' so I've decided to give her space. Also, she's currently seeing someone and I wouldn't want to damage their relationship. One of the issues we faced was distance since I...
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    Seeking advice

    Thank you Chyrssi. I have been seeking a lot of comfort in God's presence lately by praying multiple times a day - basically whenever I feel anxious or depressed. I do pray asking for his will to be fulfilled and that she is part of that. I've been asking Him to guide me down the right path...
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    Seeking advice

    Hello all, Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I am a 24 year old graduate student and I came to Christ at the age of 17. I need some advice regarding a recent long term relationship. I was with my ex-gf since 2010 until she decided to end things last Christmas. We were both...