Recent content by ChristopherK

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    Marital Testimony

    If it's going to build up in love then go ahead.
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    Did Someting Wrong to Find Out if I Was Right.

    I have offered for us both to go to counseling numerous times and she's always said no. I went for myself twice through a mutual friend who is a Christian Counselor, and then another time w/ a professional Christian counselor. The most recent Counselor suggested we both come in, but she hasn't...
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    Family Pets? Show em awf!

    That dog is BEAUTIFUL! Ugh. Man, I want to get a dog. I'd have to relocate of course, but I don't mind that either. ^_^
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    Did Someting Wrong to Find Out if I Was Right.

    I had an acting workshop to go to in the city last night. Came home and turned on the bedroom light to an annoyed wife because I had to see in order to change, shower, etc. After getting in bed post-shower she was obviously annoyed because she sucked her teeth and sighed heavily. She probably...
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    Did Someting Wrong to Find Out if I Was Right.

    I hear you. I just pray somehow God opens her heart or brings her to make a choice.
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    Did Someting Wrong to Find Out if I Was Right.

    You don't have to stop posting. I value everyone's input here. I think you're right though regarding who she now is. I'd be willing to accept who she is period. My primary issue right now though is that she just doesn't share anything as of what's going on. I have no information about what's...
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    Did Someting Wrong to Find Out if I Was Right.

    No we're not separated. She's mentioned that as a possibility numerous times, but has never taken action on it. I stayed with my parents for a week on two difference occasions, but that's the longest I've been away. I agree that I'm going to need to continue exuding more patience, which I think...
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    Did Someting Wrong to Find Out if I Was Right.

    Thank you for your response. ^_^
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    Did Someting Wrong to Find Out if I Was Right.

    Amen. I think she's seeking to be connected in a way that feels comfortable for her, but I've been praying that God would radically circumcise her heart. I know this all happens for a reason for each of us individually. God has been exposing a lot of areas where He needs to change many things in...
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    Conflicted about certain aspects of girlfriend's personality

    Yeah, I'd have a conversation with her now to let her know your feelings. Be loving when you choose the words you say. Support her in her ambition to work and excel in her work, but let her know of your concerns, because if you let it slide now it could become a lot bigger an issue than need be.
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    Did Someting Wrong to Find Out if I Was Right.

    I understand your sentiment, but please refrain from putting too much judgment on her. I love her and don't intend for her to look worse. I've read other stories about how husbands and wives stuck it out for years until God made a breakthrough so I found solace in that. I'm willing to stick it...
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    Did Someting Wrong to Find Out if I Was Right.

    I understand. I'm just so hurt, man. She's on her phone half the time talking to multiple people and I text her once and don't even get a response. Her mom is staying with us until Saturday so I slept in our bed with my wife last night and it was so hard to sleep. I know it was hard for her...
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    Monogamy/Non-Monogamy/Divorce

    I haven't read the couple of other pages, but I can certainly tell you that your desires are not always going to go away in an instant. You need to be the one to make choices with purpose and intention. I still struggle with being lured by inappropriate contentography. It's a battle. A Christian is saved by...
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    Did Someting Wrong to Find Out if I Was Right.

    Sorry for not being on for so long. I was considering getting rid of my account for privacy concerns. Speaking of which, if anyone of you could let me know how I can change my name that would be great. I go to profile, but don't know where to make the change. All advice is welcome guys. I've...
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    Did Someting Wrong to Find Out if I Was Right.

    Thanks for the wisdom. Pic has been changed.