Recent content by Christianpurpose

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    New here looking for advice

    We are, Ironically here in spain the only ones who wont say much are feminist and liberals, but I probably can't show my face in any catholic nationalist scene, especially with whats going on now with immigration. Im patriot but im not race obsessed, thats the thing, I dont think many of the...
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    I'm sure its the guy because We were separated because I travel to compete in gymnastics and we had that period that we didn't see one another. The pregnancy falls right in line with the rape. I know, pregnancy through rape is hard but i guess shes part of that 1% statistic now
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    Also im not racist at all. But here in spain theres too many undocumented immigrants from Africa, some have crime back in their countries and they cross the border by force. I know many who are legal and they are fine and speak spanish but im also mad at the government for letting such issue get...
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    Being fully honest, I can't be face to face with a man who did that to my wife. I have a decent job and I basically go to university for free, I have a lot in my life, and I know it's gonna be hard but I can work through it.
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    Money isn't an issue. Trust me, i havent selpt since that day well and we have talked about it so much. We have the means, but im aware that the many responsabilities i have and adding this just feels overwhelmed.
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    I know what you mean. I do have this feeling of just random life change, I have a good job and in uni, money isnt really the issue. Its more so her and the baby, and being close to her id prefer to keep it as my own, its just that I know is gonna drain me. Work, University- having to win...
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    Yes. Im glad tho that theres people who would actually not care much, many wouldn't understand
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    Ugh this is so real. Its the most hopeless feeling. Watching my wife who is just 18 and barely being able to breath and the baby does feel like hope. I love her and im happy for our first child
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    My wife belly is getting bigger now and im im lov that process. Im just scared of the judgement, the kid will most likely be a very diff skin color...so yeah people will just think im some clown with a cheating wife
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    She doesn't want adoption and tbh I don't either, I was just giving her options because I can't imagine the horror. We will raise it as our own.
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    We will keep it, im look foward to it I just needed to hear it from older people. Im starting to see the blessing in this whole situation. God gave us a family
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    Thanks a lot. My wife said the same thing, this is a blessing that can bring us closer to God and to see the good in it.
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    Thanks a lot really
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    Also yes. Please do help me with that letter bcs its very hard to put into words from my point of view. You prob have a better way to say this