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We are, Ironically here in spain the only ones who wont say much are feminist and liberals, but I probably can't show my face in any catholic nationalist scene, especially with whats going on now with immigration. Im patriot but im not race obsessed, thats the thing, I dont think many of the...

I'm sure its the guy because We were separated because I travel to compete in gymnastics and we had that period that we didn't see one another. The pregnancy falls right in line with the rape. I know, pregnancy through rape is hard but i guess shes part of that 1% statistic now

Also im not racist at all. But here in spain theres too many undocumented immigrants from Africa, some have crime back in their countries and they cross the border by force. I know many who are legal and they are fine and speak spanish but im also mad at the government for letting such issue get...

Being fully honest, I can't be face to face with a man who did that to my wife. I have a decent job and I basically go to university for free, I have a lot in my life, and I know it's gonna be hard but I can work through it.

Money isn't an issue. Trust me, i havent selpt since that day well and we have talked about it so much. We have the means, but im aware that the many responsabilities i have and adding this just feels overwhelmed.

I know what you mean. I do have this feeling of just random life change, I have a good job and in uni, money isnt really the issue. Its more so her and the baby, and being close to her id prefer to keep it as my own, its just that I know is gonna drain me. Work, University- having to win...

Yes. Im glad tho that theres people who would actually not care much, many wouldn't understand

Ugh this is so real. Its the most hopeless feeling. Watching my wife who is just 18 and barely being able to breath and the baby does feel like hope. I love her and im happy for our first child

My wife belly is getting bigger now and im im lov that process. Im just scared of the judgement, the kid will most likely be a very diff skin color...so yeah people will just think im some clown with a cheating wife

She doesn't want adoption and tbh I don't either, I was just giving her options because I can't imagine the horror. We will raise it as our own.

We will keep it, im look foward to it I just needed to hear it from older people. Im starting to see the blessing in this whole situation. God gave us a family

Thanks a lot. My wife said the same thing, this is a blessing that can bring us closer to God and to see the good in it.

Thanks a lot really

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Also yes. Please do help me with that letter bcs its very hard to put into words from my point of view. You prob have a better way to say this

We still don't know. We are still somewhat realizing that this really happened, the emotional rollercoaster. We are from spain, and the according to description the rapist is black, very black. This week imma try to focus on her and the baby instead of the shame or my fear. This has robbed my...

Same Well. I got married young and I promised to never leave, and tbh we really were not sure when we were gonna have kids but God has placed on us a blessing. Abortion is just too inmoral in my opinion, and adoption the process is kinda flawed from the many horror stories i hear. I rather...

It will be. I just needed to hear it from other people. Im starting to love the process for what it is.

Ive had my few happy moments where im just glad my wife is bringing life instead of abortion. My wife has always said that rape shouldn't be an excuse to abort, so she is living by what she says and im sorta happy with it but then i i think of others opinions and even tho i know they dont matter...

Yes. Thing is, this pregnancy is just full of fears and not taking pics or cute baby stuff with the fam. Its been hard to cope with it but I don't want it to interfere with the childs care or for it to feel like he is some mistake or that he is being hidden in the future. This is why i made this...