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Recent content by Chris516

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    Should Christians Choose Between the Lesser of Two Evil's in the 2016 Election ?

    I also am not voting. But it is more personal. I am physically disabled and was blamed for everything that went wrong in two different situations. One marriage, and one long-term relationship. The authorities bought their lies hook-line-and-sinker. Donald Trump made a crack about someone...
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    The Duggar Family

    Quiverful, is not a 'christian church' in the 'absolute' sense of the term. It is a movement of Christian Protestants. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Quiverfull
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    fiance's OCD

    I am not avoiding the situation. I definitely would like to talk to her about it. At the same time, I don't want to push her over the edge. As for your accusation that I would rather watch movies, instead of talk with her about it, that is totally unfounded. She has never asked me to watch...
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    What NOT to say to people who are crhonically ill / disabled

    Yes, I would also tell them, 'I wouldn't wish in a million years, that you had what I have. So don't go telling me, you think you know what is like'. They would probably be shell-shocked, looking at me with their eyes' bugging out, and probably start feeling totally embarrassed.
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    What NOT to say to people who are crhonically ill / disabled

    I just noticed this thread, and can definitely say that, if someone said to me, that they felt like me, sometimes. I would tell them to be more specific. Because I don't have just one chronic physical health problem, I have three and two of the three are congenital. Anyone of which could kill...
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    fiance's OCD

    The problem with meds n' therapy(which I wish she would do), is that I feel I don't have the emotional leverage, to bring up, let alone press for, therapy and/or meds. I know she does have a problem with taking meds. That is partially warranted. Because of the medical industry finally...
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    fiance's OCD

    I can live with it. I am just wondering, if it is common with OCD? She did try Anafranil, about two years ago, and had bad side affects. She was seeing a therapist. But that was more than six years ago. Because, It was before we knew eachother and became a couple.
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    fiance's OCD

    I have talked to her about it several times.
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    fiance's OCD

    What about not communicating? There have been several stretches since Nov.'2011, where she won't return my calls or other forms of communication, for sometimes two weeks. Do you ever stop talking to your husband, out of guilt about your OCD?
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    fiance's OCD

    I need to get this out of my system. Even though I have an appointment with my therapist in the morning. If my fiance does not want to end our relationship, why is she only contacting me intermittently? If I sound like I am whining, I am sorry to everyone. But why would she still...