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Recent content by chris320

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    Do you like being single??

    Pretty much the same views here. I have only been divorced for 1.5 years, but I miss being married to a woman that I can share my life with. -Chris320
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    Does "Divorced" matter to you?

    It is very important to me who was the cause of the divorce and what the reasons were for the divorce. If I am dating someone who cheated on their spouse or initiated the divorce for money reasons, I would probably not date them again. Sorry, but if they cheated before at the expense of their...
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    Does "Divorced" matter to you?

    I would not be so quick to judge if I were you. He may have been traumatized from the relationship, and you may be just what he needs to refocus his attention away from that nightmare. -Chris320
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    Christian men, do we have to be so "perfect" to have a relationship with you?

    I agree, it is definitely a dilema. "Walk the walk" christian men and women seem just about impossible to find these days. I am a "walk the walk" christian man and it is fustrating when all the women around you seem to be only concerned about your looks and your money. To give an example...
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    Dating someone with children

    You are absolutely right. Welcome to parenting! My bet is that the children are young and that he is trying to function as both Mommy and Daddy. My hats off too him, as I was not willing to go through what he is going through, and gave my daughter to my ex instead. -Chris320
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    Faking it??

    Why? The lusts of the flesh are overriding their committment to God. These kind of people are truly faking it. They have one foot in the world and one foot in Church. They want the power of God in their lives, but are unwilling to put forth the effort to live the set apart life of holiness it...
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    Are you ready for Harry Potter?

    If you believe her statements here, you are very nieve. Take a look at her graduate degree/schooling and other influences she credits in the creation of this series. Those Christians who let their children read these books do not have a proper understanding of the spiritual warfare going on...
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    Lighthouse...Christian Dream and Vision Interpretation

    I don't think it means anything. I have a degree in computer engineering and have the same kind of dreams-having to go back and take classes and tests that I already passed:cool: . -Chris320
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    My young daughter filed for divorce & is pregnant.

    Your views are exactly what Desi is addressing. Your best friend and her husband may have strained the relationship, but they were still right to do so. The fact that your hubby is a good man just reinforces the responsibility you have before God to your marriage. Your unhappiness in your...
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    Temporary Separation

    You can conquer your anger management issues by doing three things. 1.) Get filled with the spirit and praying in tongues 30 minutes a day. 2.) Renew your mind by meditating on scriptures about walking in love for 15 minutes a day, such as 1 Corinthians chapter 13. 3.) Read a book on...
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    Marriage Reconciliation

    She is not going to feel like having sexual relations with jaspen until he can control his anger and love his wife like Christ loved the church and gave himself for it. If I were jaspen I would hurry up and take whatever steps I had to in order to control the anger and conquer the chemical...
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    Need a different perspective...help

    I agree. If you want to save the marriage, you need to beg your husband back and get back under one roof again, with consistency of intercourse between the two of you. -Chris320
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    URGENT Prayer NEED

    I would say you need to hire an attorney, to ensure that you get a fair settlement and are not taken advantage of by your husband. Nonetheless, until the divorce goes through, God still requires you to walk in love towards this spouse. -Chris320
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    Has anyone here been the bad guy???

    God is black-and-white, cut-and-dry. If you read the Word on a consistent basis, that comes out loud and clear. And as someone else pointed out, grace is not given to allow us to continue in sin, but to overcome, conquer, and subdue sin. When we walk in sin, that is when God's grace is hindered...
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    Has anyone here been the bad guy???

    True. Porn is not a valid reason for divorce. This is valid WHEN combined with the adultery mentioned earlier. In your original post you did not mention his adultery, and that makes all the difference from a biblical perspective. The other reasons you gave are just excuses to draw self...
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