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Pretty much the same views here. I have only been divorced for 1.5 years, but I miss being married to a woman that I can share my life with. -Chris320

It is very important to me who was the cause of the divorce and what the reasons were for the divorce. If I am dating someone who cheated on their spouse or initiated the divorce for money reasons, I would probably not date them again. Sorry, but if they cheated before at the expense of their...

I would not be so quick to judge if I were you. He may have been traumatized from the relationship, and you may be just what he needs to refocus his attention away from that nightmare. -Chris320

I agree, it is definitely a dilema. "Walk the walk" christian men and women seem just about impossible to find these days. I am a "walk the walk" christian man and it is fustrating when all the women around you seem to be only concerned about your looks and your money. To give an example...

You are absolutely right. Welcome to parenting! My bet is that the children are young and that he is trying to function as both Mommy and Daddy. My hats off too him, as I was not willing to go through what he is going through, and gave my daughter to my ex instead. -Chris320

Why? The lusts of the flesh are overriding their committment to God. These kind of people are truly faking it. They have one foot in the world and one foot in Church. They want the power of God in their lives, but are unwilling to put forth the effort to live the set apart life of holiness it...

If you believe her statements here, you are very nieve. Take a look at her graduate degree/schooling and other influences she credits in the creation of this series. Those Christians who let their children read these books do not have a proper understanding of the spiritual warfare going on...

I don't think it means anything. I have a degree in computer engineering and have the same kind of dreams-having to go back and take classes and tests that I already passed:cool: . -Chris320

Your views are exactly what Desi is addressing. Your best friend and her husband may have strained the relationship, but they were still right to do so. The fact that your hubby is a good man just reinforces the responsibility you have before God to your marriage. Your unhappiness in your...

You can conquer your anger management issues by doing three things. 1.) Get filled with the spirit and praying in tongues 30 minutes a day. 2.) Renew your mind by meditating on scriptures about walking in love for 15 minutes a day, such as 1 Corinthians chapter 13. 3.) Read a book on...

She is not going to feel like having sexual relations with jaspen until he can control his anger and love his wife like Christ loved the church and gave himself for it. If I were jaspen I would hurry up and take whatever steps I had to in order to control the anger and conquer the chemical...

I agree. If you want to save the marriage, you need to beg your husband back and get back under one roof again, with consistency of intercourse between the two of you. -Chris320

I would say you need to hire an attorney, to ensure that you get a fair settlement and are not taken advantage of by your husband. Nonetheless, until the divorce goes through, God still requires you to walk in love towards this spouse. -Chris320

God is black-and-white, cut-and-dry. If you read the Word on a consistent basis, that comes out loud and clear. And as someone else pointed out, grace is not given to allow us to continue in sin, but to overcome, conquer, and subdue sin. When we walk in sin, that is when God's grace is hindered...

True. inappropriate content is not a valid reason for divorce. This is valid WHEN combined with the adultery mentioned earlier. In your original post you did not mention his adultery, and that makes all the difference from a biblical perspective. The other reasons you gave are just excuses to draw self...

Are you looking for an excuse to divorce him, even though he has not cheated on you? If he was beating you up I could see a reason to be separated. Aside from that, you are just bringing your marriage closer to ruin by keeping yourselves apart. -chris320

You agreed to the marriage, and that is that. You may be able to find someone who feels sympathy for you, but that does not mean that what you are doing is scriptural or approved by God. -Chris320

I would get and read the book "Love must be tough" by James Dobson, and then start applying it immediately before she gets involved with someone else physically. It may be too late to save your marriage, but it is worth the shot. She has obviously turned away from her marriage for the...

The question is whether he is seeing you again because he loves you, or because you still love him and are therefore someone he can fall back on when his love life dries up? If he actually loves you, then there is some hope, and he will not be pushing you to have sex with him outside of the...

This is similar to the same attitude my exwife had when she was involved with another man, not to mention being away from church, prayer, etc. Your exwife may be reinvolved with her exhusband again. The fact that she is fantasizing about women means that she is flesh ruled right now, i.e. God...