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Recent content by catesusmc

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    Alcohol Is destroying me and my family

    SHe called me today, and said she loves me very much and she will support me, she is mad and wants me to get help, but she also said I am your wife and i will stand by you, know you can do it.
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    Pray for us

    Things are looking a little better, my wife still doesnt want to talk on the phone, but she texted me. She talked to my aunt last night. She told mt aunt that she loves and misses me very much, but I need to get my head together, but she said she is not divorcing me.
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    Figuring out what to do next.

    You are strongly in my prayers, my heart goes out to you. i know the feelings you feel inside. Pm me if you need to talk, it's allways good to fellowship.
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    Pray for us

    I cant sleep at all, I miss my wife so much. I feel sick to my stomach, everything reminds me of her. I hope we don't stay separated:cry: long, I cant take it I miss her so much.
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    anyone divorce in wa

    I believe it cost 250 to file for divorce. I am currently a paralegal student still working on my own dissolution of marriage. We have been at it since February of 2005. We have a tuff case were going back and forth, plus there is children involved. A divorce can be done quickly if it is...
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    Fighting a good fight

    Thank you for sharing that brother, I can admire your handling of the situation. You are a good husband, It is also encouraging to me, to see how God heals marriages. I will send my prayers for you and your family.
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    Pray for us

    Thank you for the good advice, its nice to have someone to talk to that can understand what I am going through. I put it in Gods hand, and I know his will well be done. Thank you again, for the support and good words of advice.
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    Alcohol Is destroying me and my family

    Just to give a quick update, my wife text ed me tonight and says she wants a complete separation. Which isn't good but at least its not divorce. This will give me time to make good on my word. I thank God for this time. I will use this time to get in the word, focus on God and become a better...
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    Pray for us

    My wife knows I have a drinking problem and she really believed I was gonna get it th time. She is in California and i am in Washington while i finisyh school. Well I relapsed a couple days ago and now I think she is gone for good. I peay to good to help me get back on my feet. I ask that she...
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    Alcohol Is destroying me and my family

    Thank you for all the support. I am doing this for me, I am tired of living like this. Waking up feeling bad breaking promises. Most of all I can feel the distance I put between me and God. At one point I was on my way to becoming a youth pastor and was enrolled to become a drug and alcohol...
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    Alcohol Is destroying me and my family

    Thank you for the feedback, I'm going to outpatient treatment Monday, and I am looking for a church to start going to.
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    Alcohol Is destroying me and my family

    I went out and drank last night, and broke a promise to quit drinking to my wife. I feel horrible and I think I'm going to lose her. Right now she lives in California and me in Seattle while I finish school, and I broke the promise, it doesn't make since because life was going so good. I know I...
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    Hi I'm getting back to Christ

    After walking away I am finding my way back. I was on fire for Christ at one point and wanted to become a minister, after back sliding I know I need to be back were I belong and thats with God. I look forward to good fellowship, it feels good to be home.:prayer: