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Recent content by Candlelight

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    Marijuana?

    I think it depends on why you do it. How much you do it. Do you smoke because you like the high? Not good. The bible is clear about being drunk as opposed to alcohol in moderation. I live in California, where it is legal for many people here. I smoke from time to time, but for medicinal...
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    You Know You Are Loved When

    And being loved by your child is the most special thing in the world.
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    Considering adoption

    I adopted my 22 year old daughter 11 years ago. When I realized that I couldn't have children, I really felt God speaking to me to adopt an older child. There are so many out there that will never have a forever family. It has been a tough road, but well worth it. To take a life and change...
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    Anxiety

    A panic attack is the body surging adrenaline when you don't need it. And then you get another surge of it when you get stressed from the first one. It's a vicious cycle, I get them frequently. Some bad, some tolerable. It helps when I can concentrate on the physiological things my body is...
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    Is smoking dope bad as a christian?

    What about when it isn't illegal? My daughter got a prescription for her bi-polar. It evens out her moods better than all the other cocktails that were prescribed for her. Do I like that she smokes pot? No. But no more then I like all the other drugs she has to take. I haven't read every...