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Recent content by bobtherobert

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    seeking advice

    We had a big talk about it tonight again, it seems she goes through phases, from sad to happy, but after Christmas she's decided to go to counseling, so she can learn some new coping strategies and talk to others who share her experience... I'm so proud of her
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    Is the key to agree to disagree?

    And when I say "agreeing to disagree" I just mean in essence every religion is the same, morals and consequences, so why is there animosity between some different religions?
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    What to do...

    and .what exactly do i say to the police? they wouldn't even believe her if she were to go to them, let alone me
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    What to do...

    ya, i have another thread where i was seeking advice on helping her a few weeks ago, it was only today i learned who he was...
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    South Park

    One of my favorites was right after Isaac Hayes left because an episode went against his beliefs, after he willingly participated in doing the same to almost EVERYONE else's, and they use old voice overs to ruin the character... P.S. I did love Chef though,
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    Pics of my kitten

    The gray one is Willis, he's just turned 4mo, and is probably the most bi-polar cat I've ever owned... going from friendly lap kitty,:thumbsup: to insane demon in a matter of seconds:eek:. The tabby was Mr. Bigglesworth, my first cat. We also have a very large tuxedo cat, but I don't seem to...
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    What to do...

    she doesn't want the police involved...
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    What to do...

    You hit it on the nose, but i was thinking something more along the lines of using his manhood as a necklace
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    seeking advice

    I found out the name of the one she thought was her friend... I really want to pay him a visit and cause him a world of pain and suffering... it's all I can think of... she has no idea that I know...
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    What to do...

    I wasn't sure where to ask this, but here it goes... Imagine you knew someone who had something horrible done to them by someone they knew. Every time they tell you about it, you imagine this person having the same thing done to them in the afterlife for the rest of eternity (I need to try and...
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    Is the key to agree to disagree?

    Ok, so "historically" wars have been mainly waged because of a difference of opinion, which more often than any other one reason was religion. But the main point of my question, which I suppose I didn't get across was if I don't follow any religion, and God does happen to exist, will I not get...
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    Explain to me how premaritial sex is immoral

    well, hes not my god either... what happens if when you pass away, it turns out that we've all been barking up the wrong tree and as long as you lead a moral life (dont kill, rape, or steal... live by the golden rule) and you win, and who knows for sure what you win? i know i don't, but im not...
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    Explain to me how premaritial sex is immoral

    who are you to say what your god intended for me? sorry, i dont mean to be rude, but i don't understand why i have to repent to someone for doing something my body has evolved to do... there is absolutely nothing wrong with consensual sex between adults... it's why your god gave me free will...
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    Explain to me how premaritial sex is immoral

    I don't understand how almost no matter where I look, I see something exploding, someone getting shot, or other depictions of senseless violence. What I fail to understand is why murder is ok to show in movies and tv, whereas sex between consenting adults is still something to be ashamed of...
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    Is the key to agree to disagree?

    I have lived my entire life outside of religion, putting more faith in science than in writings from hundreds or thousands of years ago, with who knows how many errors or misprints in them... almost every war, every massive act of violence has been on behalf of one gods "teaching" and how they...