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Recent content by Blueflamingos

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    This is a Tough One

    I'm not judging you at all nor do I intend to be rude in any way....I'm just looking to help and point you toward hopefully good advice. Premarital sex and living together is "frowned upon" by Christians because it goes against what God wants for us as His children. It is deliberately disobeying...
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    sex before marriage but with conditions

    Since you had sex, yes, absolutely, ask for forgiveness, and abstain until your wedding night. Yes, you're going to married soon, but you're not married yet. God doesn't view you as married yet. And He wants you to save coming together as one physically for your marriage bed, and He says that it...
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    Let's discuss "selfish."

    I agree with Snooch, too! Completely!
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    Let's discuss "selfish."

    :amen::amen::amen::amen::amen: I COMPLETELY agree and feel the exact same way! Here here!
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    Childfree and new here..

    Oh my gosh, I LOVE that I found this group tonight! Now, I have always been single, but I desire to be married and think I will be a great wife and care very much about marriage and serving God with my life and also in my future marriage, but I have NEVER EVER wanted to have children, and that...
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    Is it okay to want to be married but not be a parent

    I definitely desire marriage and I want to be a great wife to a wonderful man one day, but I do NOT want kids. I've had this discussion with many Christians who are closed to me and who are very Godly people and they have told me that as long as I'm serving God and living for him, then there's...
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    Are Guys Who Share Their Emotions a Turn-Off?

    Speaking just for myself, I would never want to be with someone who wasn't emotional and someone who wasn't comfortable expressing his emotions. Christ and a relationship built on Him and in Him is obviously the most important thing, but to me, the next important thing would be emotional...
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    Women... what am I doing so wrong?

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    Don't Want Kids

    :clap: :amen: Thank you VERY much, and AMEN to you, sister! I am SO sick and tired of EXACTLY what you said in your last paragraph. I love the Lord with all my heart and seek to serve Him and know Him daily. I am a sinner and am thankful that Jesus is my Savior. But does the fact that I don't...
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    Don't Want Kids

    :amen: :amen: :amen: :amen: :amen:
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    Don't Want Kids

    You're welcome to disagree with me all you want, but just as you're sticking to your convictions, I'm sticking to mine. And just because you think that following God and all of His commandments equals all of His blessings and a great and perfect life (which is what I gather from all that you...
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    Do you flirt?

    I don't flirt because flirting, in my opinion, is a means used to draw attention to oneself instead of to Christ. I also don't want to disrespect whoever my future husband is by "playing games" with other people. I think I'm a friendly person, but my friendliness is never to be confused with...
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    For Singles Only

    MUST love the Lord with all his heart and soul and mind and strength, MUST put Jesus first and have a daily walk with Him (which is kind of the same as the first thing I wrote, LOL!), kind, caring, sensitive, compassionate, thoughtful, appreciative, someone never married and preferably a virgin...
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    Don't Want Kids

    See, while I respectfully disagree, I don't think anything you said is fair at all. What about the infertile people who can't have kids? Don't they deserve to have love and companionship? Marriage is NOT just about having kids, and kids actually ruin what would've been really wonderful...
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    Don't Want Kids

    Ok obviously this was posted a LONG time ago, but I still want to answer it. I don't want kids. I've never wanted them and the older I get, the more I don't want them. I don't think there's anything wrong with not wanting them. I have the UTMOST respect for mothers and obviously motherhood is a...
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