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Recent content by biffy

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    Who would you like to meet on CF in real-life?

    yessss i got a mention!!:wave: hehe
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    struggling with prayer...breaking the drought...

    i've been struggling to spend time in prayer...i have been lucky in that most of my life this has been easy for me and i've prayed all the time...where ever i am...what ever i am doing... i have grown in alot of ways in the last year i've had alot of changes in my life not all of them...
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    I guess this is a goodbye

    hey smokkie i have passed on a couple of emails from others to Alex but i havent' heard from him since last night i think we have to trust that he is in the Lords hands and pray for him...beyond that i guess we can stay in touch with him and if he wants our support then be there for him and...
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    I guess this is a goodbye

    wow you guys are blowing me away!!! this is great stuff...Blessed Journey i am so sorry to hear that you went through a divorce...and i know tha God does draw us closer to Him in these times (Romans 5) also we should have more of this open, and honest conversations...so many chrisitans try so...
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    I guess this is a goodbye

    he wants to hear from people in CF and said that it is always good to have friends in times of trouble....PM me for the link to his journal. you know with a little more encouragement he'll be ok and he'll be back...think he just needs to know that he is far from alone in his struggles!!!!! so...
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    Where I'm at, partially hormoes, Don't Mind me, I'm basially talking to myself..

    No. I have been here and gone through this whole situation with a male friend of mine. It was hard and the thing is I did talk to him and nothing ever eventuated. I did everything - prayed, cried, talked, avoided, the lot. The hardest thing is to see past all this. I dated other men and he dated...
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    I guess this is a goodbye

    hey there guys i emailed him and he's all good to email me back i say we all email him and encourage him back!!!
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    Where I'm at, partially hormoes, Don't Mind me, I'm basially talking to myself..

    wow ....cool ....i'm so excited for you...enjoy the ride...relationships start naturally you will konw just by looking at eachother when the time is right....it will be like a neon sign flashing above your heads...if you feel ready create a situation when the two of you are talking together by...
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    This hurts

    cool....i'm glad you feel better about it and i'm glad to hear that your self- esteem is not based on others opinions of you...so many struggle with that...even much older people...good on you!!!! that's brilliant!!!
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    Where I'm at, partially hormoes, Don't Mind me, I'm basially talking to myself..

    hey give it all to God...sounds like you are either not ready or maybe you should give it a go and find out for sure if you are ready or not (I think i am talking about telling this guy how you feel) remember a life half lived is a life not really lived!! God teaches us from our mistakes speak...
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    Where I'm at, partially hormoes, Don't Mind me, I'm basially talking to myself..

    hehe you know i felt like this some time ago and my guy friend that i also did love...well...i decided i wasen't ready for anything and my excuse was he has a terrible dog...honestly it was feral and i didn't want it messing up my backyard if we ended up married hehehe...*sigh* anyways i decided...
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    This hurts

    hey...don't beat yourself up over it...look at my age *sigh* there have been many friends come and go from my life some have been there for a reason others a season and some (God bless them) have been there a lifetime for me...this guy is one out of millions in the world...and you are worth so...
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    This hurts

    hey look after yourself...people behave the best way they can to "survive" in life and they don't always realise how they make others feel in the process...we are naturally more in turned to our own feelings than others...it's sad in a way but at the end of the day look after yourself when...
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    he just told me he has a kid

    i guess i have alot to learn...hmm
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    Abuse not gender specific

    yeah i guess i was pretty stupid then well either that or not in my right mind...but you know it certainly dosen't mean that i deserved it we all make mistakes...i am very sensitive and i trust to easily and i got caught and i've been beating myself up all day about it and calling myself stupid...