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Recent content by barni7

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    Intimacy

    Hi Somehow I find the present generation a bit too weak, they tend to over debate things and I believe that a person has to do what he/she has to do especially if he is a man.He supposed to lead the family and to teach his wife and children as best as he can according to scriptures.Apparently I...
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    Intimacy

    Hi, Finally hearing from a christian woman that speaks some sense.Will take on board what you have mentioned especiall about the enemy moving in (devil) .Still going for councel though it makes me feel weak as a man (caveman instincts I guess) but it helps her, so I guess I will hang on for...
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    Withholding sex vs. unable to have sex

    Hi, Here the problem here is Gods wishes comes first or is it ours.If we believe in him therfor whatever we think about the matter is null and void.We also have to do our duty with love. In otherwards faking it at the beginning too and hopefully liking it at the end probably is the best...
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    Withholding sex vs. unable to have sex

    Hi No she was not that way before and the early days, she was giving person.The whole problem I think I gave her everything I had and even to this day,but you are right it will hurt my relationship with GOD.Before I end when I said brute force, it just meant the way our marriage its going to...
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    Withholding sex vs. unable to have sex

    Hi Hetta, Not in my country,it will be a husbands right.Anyway I am not goin to do that.Anyway theres plenty of fish in the Ocean, nicer ones too.
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    Withholding sex vs. unable to have sex

    Hi again, How about 2 years of extra nurturing,being at hand for all her needs,helping her in everything she has problems with,working hard to provide her for needs,being sensitive to what is important to here etc.Here we have a women who is in her comfort zone and this is where I...
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    Withholding sex vs. unable to have sex

    Hi, Both of u than have wonderful relationship, a good understanding with each other.You are right in saying that why have sex with a person who doesnt want to have sex with you but what is the alternative?According to the therapists we have been to she is suffering from low self esteem and...
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    Intimacy

    Hi, I am married now for 23 years with 2 children. I am now 52 years old and my wife a year younger.I am a very devoted to my family and a very responsible and caring husband and father and this is according to my wife. Unfortunately she doesnt want to have any sort of intimacy and...