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Recent content by AussiePat83

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    Good comes to those who wait

    Hi All, I just wanted to post this as an encouragement to those who are going through a rough time in marriage, especially because of an affair. I am 29 years old and have been married for 2 years. My wife started an affair 9 months into our marriage and I caught her 12 months ago. Since...
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    Stuck and needing to let go and let God.

    Hi everyone, To put my story into a short one is difficult but for your sake ill make it quick... - Wife and I have been married 2 years (together 6) both christian (both 29 yrs old) - We move from Australia to Hong Kong at the beginning of this year together for what was suppose to be a...
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    Just separated, finding it hard!

    Thanks Jaapottery. Yes I have been keeping my eyes on Jesus throughout this process. I have learnt a lot and I am excited about my future whether my current wife is in it or not. Just hate been in limbo over all this and to be in a foreign country at the same time really makes it harder.
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    Just separated, finding it hard!

    Hi Everyone, I'm new to these forums and i'm struggling a bit. I'm 29 and been married for nearly 2 years. My wife had an affair 6 months into our marriage and it lasted 6 months before I found out. We both moved to Hong Kong for my work and thats where it all came out. She ended the affair...