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Recent content by Ashyah

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    When to go on

    It is so hard for me to think of his church as a cult. They are Godly people. But, the pastor is a dominant figure. He doesn't allow his wife to take a driving test because she would be alone with a male in the testing car. I know that my husband goes to him for everything. Maybe he has been...
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    When to go on

    I had spent 11 years as a divorcee. My ex husand was terrible. He didn't work he cheated. Left me alone all the time. If he came home I was dressed I had been with a man if I was in night gown I had been with a man. I left him. I would tell him I loved him he would say you are not the only...
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    When to go on

    Another thing. During all the years that I have been with him I have never suspected any cheating. The only thing that I have wondered since he doesn't seem to need me. Is that maybe he is carrying a torch for someone in his past or he is just not interested in women.
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    When to go on

    We didn't have a special bond.We lived 45 miles apart when we met. He had grown up in my area and moved away with his family. He would go visit people in my area. One member of this family that he visited was married to my brother. They would bring him over when I had parties. One night they...
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    When to go on

    Sometimes I feel that I was wrong in leaving him. I look at the debts that he has. I wonder if he is just sick. He does some things to make me wonder. Like right now I am having my car fixed. And, he is letting me use his while I am doing that. Of course he isn't paying for the repairs on...
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    3 months since divorce was final

    I know how hard it is. I left my husband 16 months ago. He has never even asked why I left. It is like I never existed.I miss this man that even when I lived with him I was by myself.He slept in a different room. We miss the companionship not the man.
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    When to go on

    Believe me I have thought of this many times. Is he carrying a torch for someone in his past? Does he have homosexual feelings but hasn't acted out on it? He is very attached to people at his church also.His attachment is not normal though. And, this old man is 70 years old and my husband...
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    When to go on

    Believe me if my husband had asked me to stay I would have. The problem is that he doesn't care. I left in the middle of the afternoon while he was at work. He never even called. If he had shown love and care for me I would have stayed. What you are saying Autumnleaf is true. That may happen to...
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    When to go on

    Today I heard from my daughter that my husband will be traveling. It bothered me and I don't know why.I felt anger and jealousy. I hate feeling like this. Just when I feel that I have healed there I go again. I guess it just hurts that he is out there acting like he doesn't have any...
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    When to go on

    There is just so much one can do to keep a marriage going. There comes a time when even though you love that person you just feel by their words and actions that they don't love you.
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    In Dyer Need of Help..

    I am glad that you have talked and will be going to church together. Don't leave your wife. You both love each other. You have that. So, there is something to work with. In your depression she has probably taken on some of your obigations? Seek counseling but, most of all prayer. God...
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    When to go on

    That's true. In Christ we are equal. While I lived with my husband I was so deeply depressed.I would lay in bed at night and hear him in the shower. I would wait and see where he went after that. Everytime I would just hear his bedroom door close. I would just cry and go to sleep. I don't...
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    When to go on

    The friends that we have are all christians. They pray for us. Try not to take sides.
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    When to go on

    I have accepted that my husband doesn't really love me. And, the reason I have posted here is to get opinions from people that may have gone through what I have gone through. I know that something is troubling this man. I have not done something so terrible to have him just throw me aside...
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    Legal Seperation

    Yes, Outside counseling is better. The church which I used to attend with my husband favor him. I was the one that always went to them with my problems.Since he is so dedicated to them and still attending there I feel they are biased.I don't feel that they should pick sides but, they...
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