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Recent content by antojak

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    A Question for people who were adopted

    Thank you all for your replies, I'm keen to tell my son, although it's not easy. My husband doesn't want him to know until he's older.........but I think we are only protecting our own interests if we don't tell him. I only want whats best for my little boy, he's very special to me.
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    A Question for people who were adopted

    Or Parents who have adopted children. I have a four year old son who my husband will be adopting this year. His natural father lives in another country and has agreed to my husband adopting our son. I have been advised by adoption councillors that I should tell my son NOW that he has 2 dads...
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    Changes

    I wish I stayed in school longer than I did. I had great grades in high school, but because I didn't have a career goal, I didn't go further than high school. Now I'm 34 and want to go back!
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    Gray Hair

    For me I think it was around my late 20's. Thank goodness for hair dye! Especially since I've got dark hair so any grey is very noticeable!
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    Any Memories?

    My family has always been big on keeping photos, so I've got so many photos growing up. I treasure the photos from my school days its great to look back with my close friends. I still have the same friends from my high school days, so its fun when all of us get together and look back at the...
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    Circumcision

    My son got circumcised when he was 11 years old, we talked about it and game him the option, and because he accepted the Lord earlier in his life, he decided he wanted to do it. He was fine, and healed fairly quickly..............we have another son who is 4, and we plan to give him the same...
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    Which one are you?

    We try to be a team, but alot of the time, my hubby prefers I make the decisions.........as an earlier post says, when it comes to X-Box, we are very competitive!
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    When did you know what you wanted to do when you grow up?

    When I was still in school, I had no idea what career I wanted...............When I was 20 I decided to do a Travel and Tourism course because I loved to travel, after my first year I got pregnant, married and all my career plans were put on hold. Now I'm 34, I'm thinking again what I want to...
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    Slightly Embarrassing Crushes from the 80's?

    Patrick Swayze after I saw Dirty Dancing! Also Nik Kershaw (probably not many have heard of him?????) Yes and Johnny Depp from 21 Jumpstreet!
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    Current TV Shows

    I have heaps of faves this season. I watch some American shows like: Lost, Greys Anatomy, ER, Oprah, Dr Phil, Biggest Loser. And some english ones like: Dragons Den, 10 years younger, Lifes not all Ha Ha He He, You are What You Eat. And some N.Z ones: Downsize me, Shortland Street.
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    On The Move

    I wouldn't move too far from home (New Zealand) so most probably Australia, it's beautiful there and have lived in Western Australia, N.S.W, Victoria and Queensland. And it's not too far away from my family in Samoa.:wave:
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    Who Were Some of Your Favorite 80's Bands?

    I used to like Ah Ha alot! Also Prince, Madonna, Michael Jackson, Duran Duran, Tears for Fears, Bon Jovi, Ray Parker Jr.........the list goes on!:thumbsup:
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    Movies for the kids...

    Yep I do the same. My youngest used to watch Annie almost every day, my daughter loves The Wizard of Oz. I love looking through the old movies at the video store, The Black Stallion, Goonies, Batteries not Included, Parent Trap, Freaky Friday. The list goes on! My son who is car crazy...
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    When to tell my 4 year old, he has a different daddy???

    Thanks for all your replies. It's such a hard decision, and to be honest quite a difficult one to talk about with my husband (I know it shouldn't be this way, we always seem to just ignore the past, maybe thats unhealthy????) His biological father has agreed to be involved in my sons life...
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    Bedtime for children?

    I have 3 children, they have to be in bed by 8.30 but they can read for 30 mins to an hour while in bed. They are 4, 9 and 12. (well, to be honest, doesn't work as well with my 4 year old! :) )
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