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Recent content by Anstroh

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    Mid life sex faithfulness

    This is better! "Right in his FOOLISH eyes" thanka
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    Mid life sex faithfulness

    Of course I know its wrong "Logically I know the above is wrong" in first post. The verse is helpful because it challenges doing what "feels good" as opposed to what is good. I am glad to hear you have no sins of ommission though. I
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    Mid life sex faithfulness

    "There is a way that seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death." This is a very helpful bit of wisdom.
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    Mid life sex faithfulness

    Since I have approached 40 and had a vasectomy I have struggled more with desires to have sex outside of my marriage. I feel there are parts of my sexuality that remain unexplored and unfulfilled. And that these are unlikely to be possible within the sex life of my marriage. In particular I...