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Recent content by ana811

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    Newlyweds~2 years or less...

    married 6 months and 4 days
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    will God forgive me?

    Boy can I relate to how you feel. A very similar situation happened to me a few years back in college, with a guy I knew I shouldn’t have been with. We also didn’t have sex but got really close and did other things. I cried and cried for days and felt guilty for a long time, I seriously...
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    Is porno viewing adultery ?

    I am so sorry you are going through this. Yes it is definately wrong what he is doing. There are resources online he can go to for help and resources you can go to for support. www.newlife.com has several books and can point you to counseling and groups that can help. They have a workshop...
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    Husband wants housewife

    Thanks, sculpturegirl, I'm glad you understand how it feels. It just feels bad when someone thinks you are doing wrong and wasting your education and that you should get more education. It makes you question if you know what you are doing. But then again, as my husband pointed out, they...
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    Husband wants housewife

    Well even if the loans were paid off right this second, we'd probably still wait a year since we just got married a few months ago. Secondly, he doesn't think a full-time is worth it. On just his income we can pay off the loans in about 2 years, if I work part-time we can pay them off in about...
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    Setting the date

    Hi, I'm new here and recently married and just went through all this wedding drama. -Getting married on a Sunday isn't a bad idea, sometimes venues are cheaper. -Getting married on your grandfather's birthday isn't bad either, I had a cousin who did something similar and they had a birthday...
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    Husband wants housewife

    I realize homeschooling is stressful. I was homeschooled for a year and my husband was homeschooled for a few years and many of my friends were homeschooled. I've also worked with children and developed lesson plans and had education classes. We know it's a lot of work. But we only plan on...
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    Husband wants housewife

    He does plan on working full-time when he goes back to school. I told him if he wanted to go back, I can always work while he is studying, but he insists that's not the way he wants it. He just wants to do a couple classes at a time. I asked him again last night and he says he has no interest...
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    Husband wants housewife

    My husband and I are 24 and have been married for a few months. Before we got married we discussed some things about working. He told me he really didn’t want me to work at all and if I felt the need to work the most he could be ok with is part-time. I agreed, but now I feel guilty about it...
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    Online Christian Dating

    Hi, I also met my husband online. We met through eharmony and I actually think it's a good way to meet people. We were long distance for 7 months, spent the summer together and then were long distance again for a year before he moved to my city. I think it worked out well. I think you get to...
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    confused and frustrated

    Edie, I completely missed that...thanks for pointing that out...I'm meeting with my Pastor tonight (PCA church) and thought about printing out what he said and asking him is this what Calvinists believe.
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    confused and frustrated

    This is exactly why I ended up having a problem with arminian theology. It was way too stressful. Every messege was about what more you had to do and how you weren't doing well enough and it just gets draining and you feel like God doesn't love you and puts all these requirements on you that...
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    confused and frustrated

    Erin, Yes, that makes perfect sense. I was getting the impression from Jonas that you can just have faith and be saved and live how you want. Maybe I just misunderstood. Thanks
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    confused and frustrated

    I agree salvation is not by your works or else Jesus death and resurrection is worthless. However, after coming to the realization that it is only Christ and Christ alone who saves, are not Christians required to live a righteous life? Are you saying that anyone who trusts that Christ has...
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    Questions about some verses

    Thank you Erin!
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